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Charlie10027 - 28 May, 2020 - 11:07AM

For me being on IE is to have the joy of a relationship which, for whatever reason, you do not have in a marriage. And to really enjoy that relationship, and get the best out of it, you should be monogamous. And if your desire is to play around, then clearly your IE relationship is not right for you, and out of respect for your IE partner you should finish it and move on. Logistically its not easy having an affair, why make life complicated and hurt other people unnecessarily? Just enjoy the moment and your partner.

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Mews0001 - 28 May, 2020 - 08:02AM

Fromthestart

I've yet to find anyone on here that has progressed beyond chats.
So, I would say that being faithful to an I.E. only starts when a real connection has been made and a meeting had. Up to that point nothing is set in stone, unless that connection is almost instantaneous.

There are some on this site for whom the thrill seems just to be messaging but they're not honest about that. Where they are, I pass by.
I'm not into cyber sex. What's the point?!

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1384329 - 27 May, 2020 - 11:33PM

I have never cheated on my affair. It’s stupid, why would you 🤷‍♂️. We are all in this together and if you can’t be completely honest with your affair, then who can you be honest with?

For 16 months it was her and her alone. We were open and honest with one another, I didn’t need to cheat, I was already getting what I needed extra from her.

Surely if it’s not working, you just end it 🤷‍♂️.

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pkash78 - 26 May, 2020 - 10:11PM

Well said @MatureWorcsBBW.. couldn’t have said it any better.. couldn’t agree more with what you’ve said

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1041875 - 26 May, 2020 - 08:08PM

I was completely faithful to my ie he wanted for nothing we did everything tried everything outdoor sex in door sex every where sex I thought and he told me he would never cheat it was us two And only us two We had great time I thought and did many things together besides sex then he cheated on me after asking me to be faithful to him If I ever wanted to have someone else then He said speak to him first ..and he would do the same but no he wanted his cake and eat it ..I believe he’s still on here no doubting telling the new woman the same thing .kind of lost my trust a bit on here now ..

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Charlie10027 - 26 May, 2020 - 05:13PM

If you want the best out of the relationship, stay with one partner. The sex gets better as you get to know one and another more.

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1366333 - 25 May, 2020 - 07:04PM

I have been completely monogamous and never cheated on him. I don’t have any sexual relationship with my spouse. Whether that will change in the future...who knows, it’s up to him.

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Golly.1k - 25 May, 2020 - 03:05PM

Openness with an IE is what counts to know what you each want, then you have no reason not to keep everything truthful.
I would keep to one IE (when it happens) and be honest
Same as a lot of peeps here, spose sex has all but disappeared

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fiveten3 - 25 May, 2020 - 12:28AM

When I first signed up to the site I wanted to keep relationships fun and light, to avoid true love, so I openly aimed at finding FWBs. At one point I had three IEs, and was open about it with them, but it did not work well. Only one of the three had someone besides me, there was tension and I was causing pain. I had deceived no one (except my wife) but that was not enough ...

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1386823 - 24 May, 2020 - 04:26PM

I still have occasional sex with my partner.
Myself and my IE are very open about desires and others that we have had and what we have done...for her it is a turn on.
I get that that is not the case for everyone.
She wants to watch me with a third but not sure where things are heading....