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1725148 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 12:34PM

MLE

Ever read a question and just answered it?

Also, you forgot to mention the week you were shagging four different women from four corners of the globe.👍

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marklondonengland - 13 Dec, 2024 - 12:19PM

This is actually four different questions bundled together, but one the main point, managing more than one IE at a time is surely difficult for most people (unless you are single and using this site) because you need to justify time away from home and doing whatever you would normally be doing. That's hard enough with one IE, let alone many at the same time. What is more realistic is that you see one IE, but keep a toe in the water here until you decide that it's time to stop using IE or your IE is so perfect that you want to keep it going for the long-term.

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1730254 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 10:19AM

@slimshyguy

Be patient (above all else, this is a long game), be respectful, write specific opening messages to people you actually match with in terms of their needs.

95% of the time, you’ll write really nice opening messages to women with nice profiles and get no reply. Get used to this, don’t let it get you down (because if they’re not going to reply to a polite message, what kind of a woman are they?)

It’s a long game, but the rewards are there.

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1680254 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 09:49AM

Hi been on site for 4 months and find it difficult to connect with women. Feel like Terry Wgan blankety blank. Is there som advice out there and where are the ladies who want to have fun ? Thought people on site where looking to get out of the normal run of the mill full day !! Ok ladies can you advise ?? Xx

JessicaRampantRabbit - 13 Dec, 2024 - 09:24AM

Definitely not. Why limit yourself?

1730254 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 08:35AM

I think for many people here (especially men), just finding one is hard enough, let alone finding more…

1615024 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 11:35PM

Completely. Otherwise what is the point? Only one. No sexual relationship with my spouse for years. Isn’t that the point of IE?

1653842 - 28 Mar, 2024 - 06:32AM

I think one IE is enough life would get to complcated if you had more than one . After children when she was in her thirties my wife announced without discussion that she didn t care if she never had sex again . I did not wish to leave and neither did she . I then met by chance a fairly long term lover when that fizzled out I joined IE where over the years have met two long term lovers at separate times When the last relationship drifted apart I recently rejoined have not met a lady yet but am optimistic.IE is so much better than a well known competitor based in Canada!

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1658841 - 27 Mar, 2024 - 09:16PM

Would rather 2 infrequently. That way there's no chance of falling in love. Long term and condoms.

FluffyClouds - 25 Mar, 2024 - 06:04PM

Is the person who is asking these questions seriously looking for honest answers to the first 3 questions? On here?

If you agree to be both exclusive, then the decent thing to be, is exclusive.

If you've not had the conversation...🤷...it's your sexual health