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1323236 - 27 May, 2020 - 11:09PM

Ice pick, or nuclear powered ice breaker.

Works every time!

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1386473 - 27 May, 2020 - 03:39PM

My issue is there are a fair few people who starts conversations then just disappear, if you send another message they'll read it, but give no explanation, it's so frustrating. One of the other topics is "we can be more honest on IE" - but there are still a lot that aren't.

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1349881 - 27 May, 2020 - 03:25PM

Any message that shows they have read your profile has to be taken seriously. What particularly annoys me is initial messages which are a copy of part of their profile. Clearly part of a mass dump to all and sundry.

phillyd - 26 May, 2020 - 06:52PM

@Cytolene
Pity that you are not local to me

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Ctyolene - 26 May, 2020 - 06:33PM

@phillyd Good gin works for my aftercare. It's a bonus if I'm sitting uncomfortably

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phillyd - 26 May, 2020 - 11:10AM

@Cytolene,

Definitely not a Christian Grey. But I respect hard limits, soft ones are there to be pushed. What is important is aftercare!

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Ctyolene - 26 May, 2020 - 02:49AM

@phillyd

Sure, but it becomes pretty obvious quickly if they know what they are talking about, and how good they are at consent.

Like if someone says they are a real life Christian Grey, I know they are fakers, because Christian Grey would be my lapdog.

Mostly they suddenly get all submissive and ready to do anything I tell them.

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phillyd - 25 May, 2020 - 11:23PM

Ctyolene that is so funny. But don't you get the odd idiot who doesn't know about limits?

Ctyolene - 25 May, 2020 - 10:06PM

I tend to ask what they are looking for, and say I'm looking for an experienced sadist. That weeks out the vanillas pretty quickly.

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phillyd - 25 May, 2020 - 09:54AM

From a personal point of view, I always try to make a comment about something in the ladies profile. Though the computer generated ones can be a challenge.

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