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Ice Breakers

What's the best way to break the ice?

Any good conversation starters, or have any of you experienced any unique ones? Prey tell :-)

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1295389 - 24 May, 2020 - 07:52PM

Really annoying when in the first line of chat they send there password and get annoyed when you don’t reciprocate!!
Trust must be built.

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Yorkshirelass1 - 24 May, 2020 - 07:51PM

@cheekylady365

I agree, but perhaps they cant respond as yet on here and they do want to make contact. Maybe the profile might give something away. He might be a hot male. Is it not worth seeing.

Im sure champagne will help! ;) x

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MatureWorcsBBW - 24 May, 2020 - 07:13PM

Teresa di Vicenzo
Well said.

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Levi444 - 24 May, 2020 - 07:08PM

I’m still waiting for my IE, please help me


1386735 - 24 May, 2020 - 06:58PM

I don’t know...but it’s definitely not my wife is not here at the moment, wanna play?
Men honestly!

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1272141 - 24 May, 2020 - 06:47PM

Ive had good chats with women where being too far apart meant never meeting. Well.....

Anything all saucy and sexy ,delete.
Autoprofiles, delete.
Continuous views and alerts, block.

The women who I have gone onto have an affair with, began with brief acknowledgements. Little or nothing said regarding the nature of the site,ie etc. There was nothing memorable. They do not want to leave an auditable trail. Things moved onto mobiles, soon.

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1373861 - 24 May, 2020 - 05:48PM

It’s such a difficult one this is. I try and respond to something that’s mentioned in the bio. To show that I have read and that I am interested, but sometimes those who say “message me to find out more” just love the hits their bio gets as apposed to finding a real connection

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gemini2310 - 24 May, 2020 - 05:26PM

Just be yourself if your both genuinely interested conversation will flow I agree with another comment on here the age we put on here is the age we want not 20 yrs either way

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HotChoco - 24 May, 2020 - 04:30PM


@Teresa

I second the motion 👌

Totally...,absolutely....exactly that comment 😊

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 24 May, 2020 - 04:17PM

I would say speaking for myself, as a woman, the best way to get a response is :
Firstly, fall within her criteria, if her preference is age 40-50 and you’re 32 (or 64), don’t even bother to try to engage.
Secondly, have an approachable nom de plume, those with names such as ‘HungLikeADonkey’, ‘CunnilingusExpert’, or similar, don’t inspire an urgency to open the message.
Thirdly, show you’ve read the lady’s profile. Make a comment regarding that, trying your hardest not to explain in detail how you’d improve the lady’s secret life. Nor just give your password. Nor ‘want to chat?’
Yes, all women are different and what may offend / irritate one woman, another might think it perfectly ok, but just remember you’re an adult man; not 8 years old. Just be polite, pleasant and courteous. Easy Peasy!

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