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Cashany21 - 13 Oct, 2024 - 07:41PM

Maybe that’s why we’re all on here!??

Parrot-Fish - 13 Oct, 2024 - 03:47PM

I too am seeking intimacy but I'm greedy I'm looking for emotional/ mental intimacy first before physical intimacy, the whole shebang  or should that read...🤔....

For me the pinnacle in physical intimacy is a passionate kiss with a woman who's equally attracted to me. 😍 Kissing is the thing I miss the most, its my only non-negotiable and the reason I'm here.

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jen9000 - 13 Oct, 2024 - 02:04PM

yes, probably main reason i joined

Redfella - 13 Oct, 2024 - 12:41PM

Absolutely love intimacy....love making without it is a waste of time xxx it's the most exciting bit
Well almost .....lol

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jbrenor123 - 13 Oct, 2024 - 12:34PM

For me its not a lack of intimacy as it is not lacking in my relationship, I guess its just a different kind of intimacy. One that is unencumbered by the day to day reality of work; parenting; work stress. One that is entirely and almost exclusively built around a mental and physical attraction - pure intimacy.

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laugar164 - 13 Oct, 2024 - 10:03AM

Sometimes life gets in the way I worked away a lot so my wife did most of the work with the children
Then when I came home my wife works nights as a nurse so it was hard to find time to ourselves
And with no grandparents it was just a case of getting on with it
I don't blame anyone for the lack of intimacy and I have two great children

Lokini - 13 Oct, 2024 - 10:01AM

The great thing about IE is you can define exactly what your after and within 5 mins you'll have 20 men proclaiming to want exactly that. So as a woman if we want intimacy or excitement or intellectual stimulation or kindness we just have to ask. How things have changed from when we were at the beck and call of men

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dickymint69 - 12 Oct, 2024 - 11:02PM

Im in a sexless marrige, I miss sex but also a kiss and a cuddle. I used to love foreplay wheres there is a lot of kissing. Am i alone in this?

sue122 - 09 Oct, 2024 - 11:49AM

Yes definitely, for some years now.

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Colin from Accounts - 08 Oct, 2024 - 07:24PM

Well, I'm someone whose spent time away in the military, and now still work overseas in a training situation. I miss being with someone who wants the same as me. I really miss cuddling up to someone, being warm and exploring with each other. My absence has led to sex now being an appointment for 15 minutes, no build up, no foreplay, no feeling, if I'm being honest. I don't eant to ONS, swing ir sex nights, I just want to have that warmth, the enjoyment, the fun, then lying there together.