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Nine-intense-weeks - 03 Oct, 2024 - 02:13PM

The problem with monogamy is that you are governed by the sex drive of the person with the lowest level and sometimes that can change due to things outside of our control. Society sometimes frowns on cheating and that can lead to people feeling trapped. Having that spark or intimate contact is important to feeling valued and content. If that needs to come from elsewhere in a safe way then sometimes it's the only option.

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1710488 - 03 Oct, 2024 - 11:13AM

If you’re getting one word answers, don’t bother.

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Lonelover - 03 Oct, 2024 - 10:37AM

It can be good on here However it's frustrating how some good chats can be slowed by one-word answers As you sit there thinking how do we move along from that

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Foryourpleasure - 03 Oct, 2024 - 10:11AM

Sorry to hear about you missing intimacy, I think most people on here are missing it. That spark you get from someone you long to be with, I hope you find it on here

secretdrinks - 03 Oct, 2024 - 10:00AM

Building intimacy, taking risks to do so in revealing your soul, whilst a partner responds, is a deeply gratifying experience. It can build to great communication and wonderful, satisfying sexual experiences.

It is why I am here.

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Paula99 - 03 Oct, 2024 - 05:33AM

Intimacy is a state of mind …the Oxford dictionary says it’s a close relationship or friendship …but the urban dictionary sheds a little more light on it ..it’s a heartfelt bond or mindful seat of emotional …mental and physical properties that are close to your heart aching when you express feelings of concern and respect for another person..

If it is intimacy you require then remember this idea of NSA isn’t real …😁

Richard5484 - 02 Oct, 2024 - 11:28PM

Very must so that closeness of that special individual who is a confidant, lover, non judgemental but someone who can also laugh x

AsianGent1986 - 02 Oct, 2024 - 02:03PM

Intimacy comes in many forms. I don’t know whether this falls under intimacy or boredom but the intimacy I crave is being able to have a carefree laugh with a woman that I have the raging horn for. A relationship free of the daily obligations and stresses.

Most of us are trapped by obligations which prevent us from seeking our happy. Or to be frank, 70% of what you want from your partner is there but the remaining 30% is not something you can live with out.

After deliberating, it’s what initially drove me to here.

FromRoss - 02 Oct, 2024 - 01:58PM

@ ArealAffair0504, yes i completely agree with you - it’s all about the whole picture and the experience. If anyone just wants pure sex, they can use an escort or just put themselves out there. Generally on this site, people are wanting something deeper and more meaningful- the mind/body connection.

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ArealAffair0504 - 02 Oct, 2024 - 01:37PM

Intimacy is phsyical and mental stimulation I think, I need the mental stimulation before the phsyical to have that connection then the Intimacy is so much better, but not getting it from our loved ones is hard , so we arrive here and with that is the men who want ons (arghh) no thankyou that's not what we are here for we want true Intimacy that means something, do you agree ?

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