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grianne - 14 Jun, 2020 - 11:06AM

tea_coffee_me_
I agree. I often suggest that it would be cheaper and easier for them to go to a hooker. And I often hear that they want some tlc! I also don't do any zoom etc sex times. Who knows what can get online. I have a rigorous screening procedure and instead of endless messages meet up. All the guys have delivered and I've had great sex with 8 new guys in the last 10 days.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 14 Jun, 2020 - 11:04AM

cornforthwhite
I tend to agree with you.

If the conversation almost immediately gets intimate and sexual, I'm immediately put off by it.
I don't do sexting.
I don't play the "what are you wearing right now. The reply expected might be. Oh I'm in my stockings and suspenders just for you."
This is ridiculous, to me anyway.

I'm not into virtual online fantasy while it's highly likely that he's just pleasuring himself.

I'm only looking to meet a man who behaves like a gentleman. And all the dirty talk is just for actual meetings and during actual sex.

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1367807 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 10:49AM

cornforthwhite, I have to disagree, I've had some utterly filthy conversations that have lead to incredibly pleasurable meetups, and so far not a single person has bottled out of meeting, some were understandably not keen or not able to meet during lockdown but no outright refusals so far.

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tea_coffee_me_ - 14 Jun, 2020 - 10:45AM

cornforthwhite - 14 Jun, 2020 - 10:04AM

I never do sexting, videos etc.
Just been general chit chat, however now its time / more possible to meet, all disappeared.
Usually I can go from first message to meeting in about 10 messages, so the game players are caught quite easily, however house arrest has given many, more time to play.
The consequences are being felt :-( by some.

Many want a virtual affair so this has worked well for them.
Some straight to sex chat as if the other is not prepared to do x, y or z, then they just move on, as that is the only thing they are looking for.
I am sure going to a professional would be so much easier!!

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1315970 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 10:42AM

I met a friend the other day on a lane for a coffee we were 2m apart and stayed that way good job as the Police drove down the lane whilst we were chatting. I have had sociallly distanced park meets @london lady thanks for the tip I am a key worker might need a nap in Travelodge v soon 👍😎👄

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tea_coffee_me_ - 13 Jun, 2020 - 04:25PM

No, all the ones that claimed interested went quiet once a possibility of meeting started to become reality!

I’m no expert, but I do quite a bit of online selling, so I tend to try and analyse strategies. And to me Sexting before a 1st date sounds like a bad iidea when you really don’t know the person at the other end. It’s probably why so many people bottle it, the conversation starts all wrong. Just my humble opinion.

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1332870 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 10:04AM

Lightmyfire.
Why not? Lots of us are sane and would do this. Sometimes a case of needs must

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Lightmyfire936 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 09:41AM

I cant see any sane female IE lady wanting to meet for a first date in a park.... seems to go against all the rules

.. however if you are insane and want to meet me in a park then I might be persuaded to bring a blanket (sorry I cant share it) some bubbles and some nibbles

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1365842 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 09:41AM

Snap..I had same idea 😏👌 Lat's hope weather stays good next week 😈🤭

1332870 - 14 Jun, 2020 - 07:50AM

Im a key worker but not in the health industry or anything looking after people.