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1358683 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 04:32PM

Attraction of course needs to be up there. Interests are great but my free time doesn’t allow me to enjoying sharing those interests so not a deal breaker.

But I NEED more than sex haha I need random funny messages, things you see that made you think of me, that type of thing. I think so much connection is made outside of the bedroom, that without those things, it wouldn’t be the same experience. A dick pic just doesn’t cut it these days 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

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Flipper1495 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 04:18PM

Mutual attraction, humour but above all the spark that a lot of people crave has to be there because if it feels like you are kissing a relative or a corpse then to me there is no spark i need to feel the electricity, heart racing breath taking kisses x

1248010 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 04:06PM

@secretaacomplice4u- well spotted! I like the attention to detail 😊

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Mister85 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 04:03PM

Doesn't it depend on what you want from your IE? Certainly seems mutual attraction and some good chat is a place to start...although I've certainly come across some lofty expectations which made me chuckle seeing as we're on here

Secretaccomplice4u - 14 Jul, 2020 - 03:32PM

Naughtybutsweet - shouldnt you need to add Tall to your list ?

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1365661 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 02:26PM

Hard to get all 4 but 2 of them won’t be bad

1248010 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 02:02PM

I can’t do sex without some sort of emotional connection. When there’s that emotional connection then the sex will be the best ever!

Having said that, he has to be good looking enough for me to look at without cringing 😄
So:
Emotional connection
Intelligence- I want to have stimulating convos!!
Easy on the eye/attraction
Sexual appetite with a good sized appendage
Interests- just love chocolate, wine and the little things that make life fun and we’re on 😉

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Trying - 14 Jul, 2020 - 01:50PM

Mutual attraction is always first .....having things in common and wanting the same as in casual meets or something a little more
....being able to chat and get to know someone is important but as sad as it is and shallow looks are important ....you've got to fancy the person no matter how nice if that something is missing its not gonna happen

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Chezley - 14 Jul, 2020 - 12:05PM

One doesn't come here to make do with the unacceptable or disappointing. So if you find yourself managed out soon in the ie, don't be overly concerned.

That can also be decided upon sexual abilities, as much as social.

Which brings into question the one night stand. Supposedly something never to be considered. Well sometimes it is the deciding factor.

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Perfect001 - 14 Jul, 2020 - 11:57AM

I omg, perfect cock......it's never the size or shape its what they do with it and how they do it.....Jx

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