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ExoticOrchid - 24 Jul, 2020 - 04:12PM

DelishAss - 24 Jul, 2020 - 03:02PM
"we had sex on a tree in the park"

Errr "on" a tree ... are you both gymnasts by any chance or acrobats or ... ???
The mind boggles ... do expand please!

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1327360 - 24 Jul, 2020 - 03:02PM

First time I went on date with someone younger than me (probably why I prefer older guys). We just sat and talked in the car. Really got under my skin and we had sex on a tree in the park (I know I can't believe I did it either)!
This date is not going to be repeated for anyone trying to get ideas.

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tea_coffee_me_ - 24 Jul, 2020 - 09:04AM

"Secretaccomplice4u"

I am similar its the personality, hence why I prefer to go for a meal and spend time with the potential IE.

One first meeting the person arrived and I thought, oh no, how to let them down gently.
We had a meal, dessert and drinks, however when it was time to leave, I really liked him and we continued the relationship.

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Secretaccomplice4u - 24 Jul, 2020 - 08:44AM

Sportster1200L,
I dont agree. In my experience women are wired similar to men. Some women are equally driven by pure instant attraction and some men will find attracts grows.

For me, whilst raw physical attraction is often a driver, women who I wasn't initially attracted to, became more attractive over the evening. Something about how they spoke, held themselves or some undefinable made them more attractive to me. Maybe I'm odd.

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1117169 - 24 Jul, 2020 - 07:00AM

@Lillib

What would you like to know?

What I would add is that you can meet the loveliest and most interesting person imaginable, but if the initial raw physical attraction is absent for the man, no amount of getting to know each other will create it. Women can and do have a rather different response it seems because they are wired differently.

I am generalising of course.



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Summerbelle - 24 Jul, 2020 - 05:31AM

Sportster1200L - 23 Jul, 2020 - 06:38PM

That’s always my preference for a first date too, but what girl’s not going to accept the offer of a trip to France? Especially when there’s ‘no strings attached’? :-)

Summerbelle - 24 Jul, 2020 - 05:29AM

Louisav123 - 23 Jul, 2020 - 06:13PM

It was entirely the gentleman’s treat. It was a business trip that he made regularly and was kind enough to invite me along.

LilmissJ - 23 Jul, 2020 - 11:42PM

Only had one meeting/date, from reading this thread I’ve a lot to learn :)

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Lillib - 23 Jul, 2020 - 09:30PM

Sportster1200L

Do you want to tell us more?

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1117169 - 23 Jul, 2020 - 07:25PM

@Louisav123

Most guys know almost instantaneously when they first they set eyes on their date if they find them attractive, and this does not depend on makeup or what they are wearing either as chemistry radiates from within. Truly beautiful women can't make themselves unattractive even if they tried.

Initial attraction fades if conversation is awkward though and although strong physical attraction may be enough to secure a second date or more or maybe even to progress as far as sex, which if it is good will keep it going for a while longer, its not enough to sustain it in the longer term.

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