When is it ok to exchange phone numbers?
We've all been chatting on the forum about what makes a good profiles and
initial messaging but when is the best time to give out our phone numbers,
move to another app for messaging or chat on the phone?
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791941 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 05:29PM
You will know when it is right to swap numbers. You can normally tell the stalkers and those who simply like the idea of an illicit encounter and have little intention of meeting for real. Meets are in fact the only way to decide whether there is mutual chemistry.....
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Geek0808 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 05:02PM
No issues with giving out numbers. Stops the messing about
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1303634 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 03:43PM
Kik all the way for me. Others like Telegram are good too but you end up juggling all sorts of different platforms that way
gemini2310 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 03:22PM
London-lady
Yes I agree with your comment that's why my phones always on silence when I am home yes there can be stalkers out there
1400319 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 01:16PM
Stay safe, if you are being pushed into it before knowing what they look like it you might not find them at all attractive and then you have just unnecessarily shared your number with a stranger. Not ascertaining the basics (if you are looking for the same thing and genunely interested in each other) Then sharing numbers is likely premature.
I respect it is hard to gauge this but i think paying attention to communication is a key indicator. one example is if a man or woman is spread thin between messaging numerous people, you can often feel from the short infrequent responses that they are not really into you.
You are likely nothing more than a placeholder and you are probably part of an unwilling circle of victims 'ego boosting' the damaged individual in question.
Of course there are always exceptions but if you are anything like me and prefer to have a lasting romance/friendship don't bother sharing your number with these individuals, it most likely will not go anywhere.
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ExoticOrchid - 09 Aug, 2020 - 12:51PM
London-lady - 09 Aug, 2020 - 12:20PM
Agree ... they can be blocked but it doesn't change the fact that they already have your number ... unless it's a PAYG one which you can easily discard. Otherwise you'll have one hell of a problem deleting your number and having to tell all family, friends, work colleagues ... even worse if it is a work phone!
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1332870 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 12:20PM
gemini2310 - 02 Aug, 2020 - 02:22PM
Phone numbers can be given out quickly they can be blocked just like on Kik or other methods pple prefer to use
They can be blocked unless you get the stalker type who rings you from a withheld number when it's all over. Not my own experience but just saying you need to have the trust
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Dejavous - 09 Aug, 2020 - 12:14PM
Trust must come first if you are looking to build a discreet relationship.
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