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When is it ok to exchange phone numbers?

We've all been chatting on the forum about what makes a good profiles and
initial messaging but when is the best time to give out our phone numbers,
move to another app for messaging or chat on the phone?

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1376462 - 09 Aug, 2020 - 10:31AM

I have exchanged no’s and it worked out better
As it’s easy to communicate with each other as long as you are as discrete and respect each other’s privacy
Or if you are not comfortable u can use kik or hangout too

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gemini2310 - 08 Aug, 2020 - 07:50PM

Alot say on here when you trust someone exchange numbers how can anyone trust someone they do not know trust can take along time but only face to face anyone can be who ever they want to be on here

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PecanPie - 03 Aug, 2020 - 06:12PM

When you feel comfortable and a degree of trust has been established.


gemini2310 - 02 Aug, 2020 - 02:22PM

Phone numbers can be given out quickly they can be blocked just like on Kik or other methods pple prefer to use


dadbod1970 - 02 Aug, 2020 - 02:03PM

I’ll exchange numbers or go to kik straight away, but if it’s a one way conversation ie my messages are met with one or two word replies it’s delete a mondo,


MatureWorcsBBW - 02 Aug, 2020 - 11:44AM

A good profile, for me, isn't vague.
I like a profile which says what you're looking for and also what you can offer.

I find it really interesting (not) when men mention women wearing stockings, suspenders, high heels etc etc, yet make no mention of their own efforts to dress sexy for me. And the photos show them making much less of an effort to dress to impress.


I don't use any chat apps at all. None.
Well I do but only for friends and family.
I've got no time to waste on chat apps.

I ask for a number and call with my own number withheld although I have previously bought a separate phone just for online naughtiness.

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1398338 - 02 Aug, 2020 - 11:37AM

Not easy to chat on here I find so prefer to move to kik / whatsapp as quickly as possible once a bit of connection has been established

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Aria01 - 01 Aug, 2020 - 04:03PM

I exchanged numbers once, texted on WhatsApp and he asked me to delete his number and not contact him again, no idea what I said or did to cause that. This was someone who didn’t want to tlk on here and wanted to use other forms if communication right away. Lesson learnt, start out on here, get to know and tryst the person before taking things elsewhere.


MayMac - 01 Aug, 2020 - 12:15PM

It’s all about when you feel comfortable and ready! Trust your gut x

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Beardandsandals - 01 Aug, 2020 - 11:20AM

When landlines were used you really were making a lot of commitment and trust. Also your ie took responsibility and owned the affair with you.

With today's technology you can retain anonymity, distance yourself all along the way. It's no wonder folk can just ghost, disappear and never get started.

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