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WaitingtobeFound - 08 Aug, 2020 - 02:40PM

tea_coffee_me has said 'Yes some are looking for the advantages of a 'professional' minus the cost.' which is why it says on my profile that I'm not to be treated as an unpaid escort!

Ladies, look to be someone's old fashioned mistress ideally....

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Your Sexy Woman - 08 Aug, 2020 - 12:26PM

Everyone is different in what they want and my experience is most men haven't the time for once a week.

Be honest and open with what your looking for and you will, given time, find someone who wants exactly the same.

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Naughtysasha - 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:57AM

@serendipity works.

There are no ‘rules’ per se and I notice that you always throw those percentages around.
I’ve met a lover weekly before and it’s not just for sex. So your percentages and math calculation may work for you and not for everyone else. Some people just like to go with the flow.

This experience is different for everyone because no two cases are the same. So your analysis and percentages might work for you, for some it never will.

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Mr Handy - 07 Aug, 2020 - 05:33PM

I would personally struggle more at this point in time , but love the wait exciting!!! all good things come to he who waits .

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1117169 - 07 Aug, 2020 - 03:26PM

@serendipity works

It all depends on what you and your chosen IE want from it and the freedom you have to actually implement it.

It can be anything from a meaningless unemotional quick bonk a few times a year to satisfy your basic instincts to regular and frequent meetings doing all the various things that lovers normally do when they are dating including nights, weekends and even holidays away. It might even lead to falling in love and finding a new partner. There's nothing that rules that out.

There is no set formula. Its perfectly possible, though maybe difficult, to maintain a platonic marriage of convenience and a stable homelife for the sake of children or financial reasons while seeking ,and hopefully finding, physical and emotional fulfilment with someone else.

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1303634 - 07 Aug, 2020 - 03:00PM

I would be amazed that anything more than a couple of times a month is realistic without raising suspicion or causing emotional confusion as to what this really is - the 5% cherry on the cake or the 95% life transplant. It raises the question whether this is an affair or a substitute relationship

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1366658 - 07 Aug, 2020 - 01:06PM

@Sportster1200L

Yes I know and I am not complaining, was just saying.

1117169 - 07 Aug, 2020 - 12:46PM

@ Rose Bud

You cant have your cake and eat it. If you want someone who you see like a " Real boyfriend" he will be a " Real boyfriend with all that comes with it.

As another said, it sounds like you are overthinking , overanticipating and overmanging this.

You do need to do some careful pre selection and pre planning of logistics, but really you have to follow your heart and go with the flow without taking unnecessary risks.

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Chezley - 07 Aug, 2020 - 12:10PM

Again, with all this remote comms and putting off, your ie will become a distanced person and more of a stranger in real life.

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Polycarbonate - 07 Aug, 2020 - 12:06PM

Somehow there will be more time spent arranging the affair, than actually doing it!

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