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First Message Advice?

What's is the best kind of introductory message to send to women you like on here :-)
 

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1266637 - 14 Aug, 2020 - 01:18PM

Nope they are prolific , dust those forks off ladies

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Autumn willow - 14 Aug, 2020 - 01:12PM

Butterfly
Lol those douche bags have messaged you too
I thought I had cornered the market there 😝

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1266637 - 14 Aug, 2020 - 01:05PM

My favourite , what’s your favourite sexual position , and do you do anal , 🤨. Guaranteed to get us women hunting for our pitch forks and matches

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Secretaccomplice4u - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:51PM

I've read the profiles, checked I'm the right match, sent a polite message.
Sometime I get a reply, sometimes not. Thats ok.
Only once was I annoyed, she asked for a Meta-physical Haiku and I still didn't get a reply.

I've often asked "how it going here" - if she replies it gives you an idea what she's looking for.

Sometime I've had single word answers which doesn't give you much to reply with - and the conversations went really dull.

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Miss moneypity - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:47PM

The OP of this letter has just messaged me
And then ghosted me
So to add to my first comment
Don't message us ladies then disappear
If you only have time to send a message while having a number two 💩
Then don't bother to message at all

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sweetipie77 - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:29PM

As much as we all know why we on on here I really don’t like a first message telling me how well hung you are and how long you last 😂 I like a man to be a gentleman and that first interaction is the most important

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Ha1234 - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:14PM

@Cancer
When someone moans about others you still get to know the person.....the person as they are....so that probably something worth doing.


Cancer - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:05PM

Be honest. Don’t ask “hows it going for you on here?” You don’t want to compare notes or for her to come back and moan about all the other guys.
Don’t ask “where are you from?” You can tell that from her profile.
Make a compliment about something you read on her profile to show you actually read it.
Tell her something about you that you haven’t put in your profile so she’s getting extra info.
And just be yourself. Don’t write an essay but also don’t just say “hi”. What would you say if you were in a pub? (I have no idea about this one, no one has tried to chat me up in person for so long I have no idea how that works anymore 🤷‍♀️😂)

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ExoticOrchid - 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:03PM

Miss moneypity - 14 Aug, 2020 - 11:40AM
"Read her profile properly"

Agree.

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Ha1234 - 14 Aug, 2020 - 11:53AM

Hi. I'm a guy.

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