020 3633 0493 020 3633 0493
uk flag Used by over 1,715,483 genuine UK users since 2004

Flirt Forum

< Flirt Forum

Ask me out!

I have a massive crush on someone here, but I'm a bit nervous to suggest a date. Been talking for awhile now, non stop! I keep catching myself smiling every time I get a message. I can't work out why he hasn't asked me out yet! What do I do?

 25 members like this.


Sorry, you can not comment on this.


Comments (167)

1469423 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 08:21PM

What is the point in chatting for days and days..? Ask him out. If he wants to see you, he will be delighted you take the first step. If he doesn't want to see you, time to move on...we are not awkward teenagers anymore :)

 1 member likes this comment.


Wake up smiling - 08 Jun, 2022 - 06:46PM

Why not tell him that just reading a message makes you smile and that you feel there's obvious chemistry. Ask if you can meet to see if that chemistry is related to friendship or romance and that you are open to either...agree that whichever way it goes might be OK. NO risk. See if he's labelled you in the friend zone or if he actually wants more...


Rouzer - 08 Jun, 2022 - 06:37PM

The way to see if he is as serious about you as you are about him is to ask him where his ideal date venue is and why he would chose that place. When he replies with the location, you will then know the extent of his interest in you, if the venue is easy for you to get to you then ask him " Do you think that I would feel comfortable at that place?" His reply will probably include asking you to meet. PS He is a bloke so just be aware that he isn't holding back for a reason!


Geoffrey671 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 05:11PM

Go for it babe

 1 member likes this comment.


Your Gentleman - 08 Jun, 2022 - 04:13PM

Ask him out!


Paula99 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 02:40PM

Go for it....what have you got to loose?

 3 members like this comment.


Dannyboy851 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 01:25PM

Nothing is traditional anymore society has changed so much I would actually like to be asked out for a change the chase is fun


1522940 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 12:41PM

Just get involved......what have you got to lose?!?!?


RosePetal0007 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 11:04AM

B upfront & ask him out…


1527407 - 08 Jun, 2022 - 10:02AM

Ask him out

Currently online:
Registered Users: 861

secure discrete friendly