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Teresa di Vicenzo - 12 Dec, 2020 - 06:12PM

Never trust anyone. That’s all to be said!
Having said that, i have a male friend I met on another site a few years ago. We quickly realised we make much better mates than lovers (although he did - does - have a very very attractive cock). We’ve moved ourselves into the Friend Zone. We each always know what the other is up to. However we still don’t know anything personal about each other so no fall outs or betrayals can occur. I know I can trust him, and vice Versa. He’s said he’d bail me out in a flash if I needed him to. Pity we don’t fancy each other!!

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Maria Jones - 07 Dec, 2020 - 11:43PM

so the thing about having a female friend as your cofidante is this: women use information as power. It will be fine her knowing your secrets and covering for you while you are important to her. But, as soon as you're not or someone else or something else becomes more important she will betray you faster than she'd say yes to a free shopping voucher at Libertys. Trust no one and create legitimate excuses for being somewhere that can't ever be disproved.

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1389672 - 07 Dec, 2020 - 09:45PM

Have to say SpankyPants has a great point... A safety buddy! ... Damn, that needs to be put straight in the rule book.

1425545 - 07 Dec, 2020 - 08:09PM

I agree with most not to trust telling anyone. I however have a friend who I trust with my life and I do the same for her. I don’t say who or reveal details about my IE but I say where I’m going if it’s someone new for safety and she is my alibi as I am also hers which makes things easier. If you have any doubt don’t say a word

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Looking4thespark - 07 Dec, 2020 - 06:28PM

A small piece of advice.

DON'T GIVE YOUR SECRET TO ANYONE!

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duritz - 07 Dec, 2020 - 05:13PM

No cos I work shifts so it's easy to make something up for me. Have to take some clothes out with me and get changed in my car which thankfully has black out Windows in the back. Or at least that's the plan if I meet anyone real on here!!

Dejavous - 07 Dec, 2020 - 01:45PM

Why on earth would you want to involve friends or colleagues in what is supposed to be a "discreet" affair.

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1389672 - 07 Dec, 2020 - 11:08AM

Doesn’t anyone here research this stuff?

1: Don’t shit on your back yard
2: Find someone a fair distance away... that way if it goes pear shaped you can control and minimise damage.

Just a couple of tips I got from women actually... Guys, trust me, women are generally way better at this than we are... so do as they do and do your bloody due diligence.

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PR_man - 06 Dec, 2020 - 09:45PM

Good idea - perhaps IE can offer an alibi service ;)

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Trwela - 04 Dec, 2020 - 01:48PM

I wouldn't put any friend or work colleague on the spot like that. You have to put yourself in their position and i don't think it is far.

It's my affair and behavior. If caught I will take ownership.

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