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Roger1999 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 04:29PM

Classycougar

Im sort of in a different position to most in that i dont live with my long term partner and at the time she hardly ever visited me.

I still had to be careful though, in constant contact and have a daily catch up with her which was awkward when i had my IE.

Still had to be careful with excuses for lateness and what id done and where id been.

At times Im glad i no longer have the stress and at others i wish i still had my IE, even for kisses and cuddles.

Classycougar - 30 Nov, 2020 - 03:42PM

So how do most of you manage to escape with their IE if they don’t involve a trusted friend? 🤔
Asking for a friend!!!!!!

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1117169 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 02:03PM

Don't involve anyone else.

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cbou87 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 01:43PM

I haven’t told anyone what I’m doing, I just wouldn’t risk it. I don’t need the judgement. And they don’t need the pressure of hiding my life

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Roger1999 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 01:33PM

An old IE used a friend as a excuse for her to go out at times.
Personally i would never bring someone else in to the deceipt. Sooner or later you would get caught out.
Its always better to just exaggerate the truth. So much safer.

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1329251 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 01:06PM

I was having an affair with my service director from work prior to the pandemic, so I wasn't ever really lying 😂 😂.
Seriously though the worst lie I had to make was to a friend when I was 17, I said I was seeing my nan and grandad on a weekend we were due to go out partying, but I was actually going away with her dad to York to stay over. Very naive. Not proud of myself for that one.

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1412915 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 12:45PM

No one in my 'real life' knows about my 'IE life' . I prefer to keep it separate and it's nice having secret that only you and another know about.

Totally agree about potentially friends falling out or secrets getting spilled. Have to be careful in this deliciously naughty world.

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1421217 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 11:28AM

Exotic orchid , fully agree , nicely put

ExoticOrchid - 30 Nov, 2020 - 11:10AM

Beretta - 30 Nov, 2020 - 09:57AM

"Never involve others in your lies , never"

Totally agree.
Although my situation is different and I don't have to hide anything, I still wouldn't tell any of my "real life" friends about my "IE life" ... I trust them with my life but not with this ... friends fall out and secrets are spilled ... they may be sorry afterwards but too late then.

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1421217 - 30 Nov, 2020 - 09:57AM

Never involve others in your lies , never

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