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When you're getting pretty interested in an IE...

When you're getting pretty interested in an ie and you start to think it would be misleading to carry on chatting to other possible ie's , how do you let them down without making things sour?

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1117169 - 03 Jun, 2021 - 11:30AM

@YUD

Dont rise to the bait!


lorettadelray - 03 Jun, 2021 - 11:14AM

YUD

Of course you agree with Sportser.
You are one of those women.

Priceless..............

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1386735 - 02 Jun, 2021 - 09:39AM

Sportster, yet again I agree with a comment of yours,.. what is the world coming to?!

Spot on


1117169 - 02 Jun, 2021 - 08:54AM

@ Macali76

Lots of women are on here simply to chat without commitment, because they can, to many guys, endlessly.

You should suggest a meeting after maybe a dozen or so messages. If they don't respond positively, move on immediately. That sorts out the timewasters.

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1386735 - 02 Jun, 2021 - 08:21AM

Macali76 - 01 Jun, 2021 - 10:34PM

Unfortunately the flakes on here do that all the time, they get the attention they crave online, then move onto the next victim...



I was chatting with a lady for about a week intensely, we were open with each other discussed many things had a lot in common.

Bang yesterday she blocked me with no explanation

No courtesy message to explain her reasons

Don't put all your eggs in one basket

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1386735 - 02 Jun, 2021 - 08:20AM

Raisondetre

Comments like yours really get me riled. Yes this is an adultery site, yes they go home to their spouse... but why should I accept someone who finds it quite acceptable to ‘chat’ ‘meet’ others when the rules were set at the beginning. If you are after bed notches and casual hookups there are plenty of other sites for that sort of thing.
Just because I have an affair does not mean I lie to all and sundry about every aspect in my life. I had a man here laugh at me once because I wanted a mognomous affair, I’m not actually sure what’s so funny about that

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Raisondetre - 01 Jun, 2021 - 11:11PM

I think you all forget that they're going.home to bed to Mr and Mrs. So why get upset over 'chatting' to other IEs?

It's the name of the game. It's just for fun at the end of the day.

Let's put this in to some context for goodness sake. What's good for the goose and all that .....

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1417380 - 01 Jun, 2021 - 10:42PM

Sorry to hear that Macali76

Some will spin a line - my wife found out and i have to delete my account then turn up the next day with a different name but almost identical profile

I tend to find the more intense they are, the quicker they cool down

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Macali76 - 01 Jun, 2021 - 10:34PM

I was chatting with a lady for about a week intensely, we were open with each other discussed many things had a lot in common.

Bang yesterday she blocked me with no explanation

No courtesy message to explain her reasons

Don't put all your eggs in one basket


1382700 - 01 Jun, 2021 - 04:15PM

Politely. Men like me don’t take offence. So just be you and be reasonable. I’ve said no and had lots of no also. It’s just ie. besides they will be chatting to others

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