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1455097 - 08 Jun, 2021 - 09:48AM

I believe that people can make their own choices as to why they would seek out a married person for the intention of an affair, however I also believe that there needs to be sufficient trust and respect to understand the boundaries of what is and what isn’t plausible of a married person. People asking to be wined and dined, whisked away for weekends, treated with complete and utter adoration, for me at least, is completely unrealistic x

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1455445 - 08 Jun, 2021 - 09:44AM

I'm separated, I'm on here as the dating World is a mess, plus I'm not ready for another relationship. I'm happy borrowing someone's husband. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Single guys are full of drama, at least on here I know exactly what I'm getting.

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Jun, 2021 - 09:28AM

lorettadelray - 12:18AM

Oh dear still bitter and twisted I see ... did the medication wear off dear? Or did you escape from your padded cell last night to support your buddy Sportster1200L?

You poor man ... now take your medication and get back in the cell dear.

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Jun, 2021 - 09:20AM

Sportster1200L - 08:22 AM

In that case why do you keep harping on about it?

Many singles have explained their reasons for being here yet you can't/won't understand ... you're NOT single so you should let others who are to live their lives the way they want.

I'm not touchy ... just sick of your relentless single bashing here ... it's none of your business and none of your concern and it's NOT for you to "understand why" !!! 🙄

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1117169 - 08 Jun, 2021 - 08:22AM

@ExoticOrchid

I don't have a problem with single people, I just wonder why they choose to be on here and not on singles sites. Some may be on both!

If I were single I certainly would not be on here looking for a married woman with all the risks, restrictions, compromises and secrecy that would involve. I don't see the point. Its a bit like joining a cycling club when you can't ride a bike

By the way the last person that I was seeing who I met on here was married but became single and it worked very well for a while.

Its you who is exceptionally touchy about this subject, not me.

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1360278 - 08 Jun, 2021 - 07:32AM

I thin dating a single man makes better sense for me since I would prefer an actual traditional affair with emotions-plus the possibility of having all of him means it can be a deeper intense experience.It can be totally reckless as immersive as I want,irresponsible , dangerous, exactly how I imagine my kind of affair. I have come to realise the careful affair is just too boring and slow paced for me. And that's unfortunately what an affair with both married parties looks like .It's "too planned and deliberate" to ever be very exciting. There is just nothing spontaneous about it. For example, if I got caught and said I met my affair partner in a club and things got out of hand,one thing led to another and things happened, my partner would be more forgiving than if he found out I sat down to write a profile and made plans to meet with someone a website! One scenario is an "in the moment kind of thing" and the other is so calculating.This is just my opinion. Other people might have a different perspectives.

lorettadelray - 08 Jun, 2021 - 12:18AM

It's hardly single if you are divorced. You have baggage and stigma. It's a lifetime away from folk at the start of their lives, who have prospects, ambition etc. Its a disingenuous artifice to align and present yourselves as such. Stop it now, accept you are past it. Now go join the dried fish women.

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Somewhere over the rainbow - 07 Jun, 2021 - 09:44PM

Totally agree !… I also as a single woman have been on an ‘ordinary’site , but prefer this as I love the frankness and openness here ,just so many time wasters on regular sites who don’t want to meet and are mostly over life !… men here are vibrant interesting and interested
oh and let’s not forget most are sex gods !

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ExoticOrchid - 05 Jun, 2021 - 08:27PM

Sportster1200L - 07:14PM

What exactly is your problem with single people? How do you know where single people find "happiness" ... you're not single so you have no idea ... it is purely your personal opinion you're trying to foist onto the rest. You don't have to go for single people ... nobody is forcing singles onto you ... why can't you live and let live? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Most singles on singles sites are usually looking for a life partner ... most singles here are not ... period! 🙄

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1360266 - 05 Jun, 2021 - 08:22PM

@ Sportster1200L - Each to their own I guess but I agree

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