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Teresa di Vicenzo - 10 Jul, 2021 - 12:44PM

My IE pays for every hotel stay. Usually from Day Use. com or similar. He’s never suggested we should go halves. I however, buy us goodies for our enjoyment, fruit, chocolate etc. I buy him little gifts which he appreciates! Ive also taken him out for lunch on numerous occasions, but that’s not worked well because he still insists on paying!

But I had the same thing happen as EnglishNirvana with a previous gentleman friend (about 4 years ago, not IE). It was our first hotel meet after conversing by text/phone for a while and enjoyed a few coffee meets. I booked and paid by card, I can’t remember why he couldn’t/wouldn’t. After spending a lovely time together he gave me cash for half the bill. He counted it out into my hand. I hated it, I too felt cheap. Irrelevant really but he was loaded, was CEO of one of the biggest financial institutions in the country! I didn’t see him again.

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Classycougar - 10 Jul, 2021 - 10:48AM

@show and tell
I’ve just read your profile….and i’m worried for yiou girl!!!!
Please take care.x

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1458849 - 10 Jul, 2021 - 10:13AM

Surely it depends on each persons circumstances, some don’t have oodles of money some can quite easily cover bills and hide it , my ie does generally cover the room , but I like to treat him, shower gel aftershave balm , and trust me it ain’t lynx . Chanel , creed those puppy’s are expensive but discrete can easily slip into the bathroom

show and tell - 10 Jul, 2021 - 09:11AM

I do not have the money for hotels, so would have to pay in kind. Dayrooms seem a good idea but some areas do not have many or any.

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truth and logic - 10 Jul, 2021 - 08:43AM

Well as I see it if he had an Escort he would pay for a meal (if they had one)pay for the hotel and then pay her. So as long as you are good company and have great sex as he has not paid you he has saved money. Also he has been with someone who wants him and his company, it will only improve so on a winner .Women always get the shit end of the stick, for affairs, we have the blame more than the man, the lose of reputation, we pay in other ways.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 10 Jul, 2021 - 01:58AM

Airbnb do some wonderful apartments.

I prefer a quiet country house, personally.
Not stuck in one room, hoping you're not too noisy for someone to complain to the hotel manager.
No CCTV.
No nosey neighbours.

Plenty of room to be naked indoors and outside too.

I can easily book into a hotel myself a pick up a lonely businessman. It isn't difficult to do.

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ClassyLady77 - 10 Jul, 2021 - 12:12AM

English Nirvana Same here . I vowed never again.. I even had to buy the condoms… was awful…
But we live and learn..

Us ladies have other costs.. sexy lingerie isn’t cheap…
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violentAubergine Totally agree. I’m extremely independent seem to pay for everything in my marriage soo it’s nice to be spoilt. Call me old fashioned.. 🤷‍♀️But I like to treat my lover too… 😉

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EquityBoy - 09 Jul, 2021 - 11:22PM

If its a few hours, you may as well book a travel lodge and don't bother staying. Not classy but works if you are money conscious. I always pay but thats how I was brought up. If the lady wants to split I'm also good with that.

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Classycougar - 09 Jul, 2021 - 09:14PM

OMG…… such archaic attitudes!
I don’t want a lover spending family money on me!
IMO it’s an equal relationship …so why not fund it equally?🤔

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1449137 - 09 Jul, 2021 - 09:02PM

A few hours? Each to their own but i have no idea how you could be satiated in such a tiny amount of time especially with a woman you have been lusting over for days...

Anyway... in a bid to be productive, day rooms or early check in rooms are probably best for you by the sounds of it.

As for pay negotiate with your IE.

For me, I always pay... that has nothing to do with me being romantic or chivalrous. I am just blessed to be in a position to do so, why cause any stress to my lover who may have financial worries or stresses about how to pay in a discreet way? It just takes away any potential anxiety and allows us to focus on nicer things... like, ensuring the spa bath is at the right temperature...

Don't get me wrong, i dont like being taken advantage of... if she can't pay for a bottle of water (if i left my wallet in the car for example) or she assumes i should always pay for everything even after months of spending hundreds/thousands over several dates... its a serious turn off.

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