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WestisBest - 24 Jul, 2021 - 11:27AM

Just go for it. It won’t be a deal breaker if there’s good chemistry. Good luck

Teresa di Vicenzo - 24 Jul, 2021 - 11:03AM

Go the whole hog; wear a green suit and go as an Oompa Loompa

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1117169 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 11:30PM

@Realhousewife20

That's a good point.

If the fakery is so subtle that its undetectable then I suppose it does not matter. I know a lot of women, especially african women, use hair extensions / weavons very effectively and if your fake tan is so subtle that it looks natural then thats great. Its the obviously fake enhancements that many men find a turn off.

Hands up how many women would find a man with a wig ,fake tan and height enhancing shoes attractive?

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Summerbelle - 23 Jul, 2021 - 10:55PM

Chances are the fake tan will have worn off by tomorrow so I wouldn't give it a second thought. It sounds like you're just really nervous and over-thinking things. Dazzle him with your eyes and smile and he won't even notice. Go along with no expectations or preconceptions and just see what happens. Have fun!

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Realhousewife20 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 09:33PM

sportster what if you weren’t to know things were fake? This is a genuine question as I have hair extensions and unless I tell people they have no idea, I also fake tan once a week but use a really decent one and again people are very surprised when I tell them it’s not a real tan.

windthruthetrees - 23 Jul, 2021 - 08:44PM

My perspective as a man, yes I am, is that I’d be happy if you just turned up! Everything after that is a bonus. So go for it.

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1442248 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 07:11PM

Contact him and let him decide.
If it were me, would make a joke (these things happen) and move on.... although expect to have Tango ordered!!
Depends how confident you are, things come up... being pinged by the tracing app is a good excuse!

1458849 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 07:01PM

Lemon juice and sugar makes a good exfoliator, lemon juice is also a natural lightener , it will actually work to lighten your tan , and boost your confidence, at least it’s an ice breaker and conversation point , have fun

1346010 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 04:20PM

I think I would go anyway and make a joke of it, I’m sure he will find it most attractive that you can laugh at yourself. It’s a rare quality in women. Warn him though! Good luck you’ll be amazing

Perfect moments - 23 Jul, 2021 - 04:00PM

I would say go for it. Make a joke of it and just be yourself. If he cant see the funny side to it then he is not the right man for you.