How quickly can a meeting become sexual?
How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?
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FeelingPeachy - 03 Apr, 2024 - 11:01AM
The simple answer is when and only when it feels right ! Neither party should be pressured , quality over quantity always
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NinaOakley - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:59AM
I know there are a lot of men on here claiming to high earning alpha males collecting extra women like trophies. I’m not interested in those any more than there are me. I want a normal person who can offer the warmth, affection and sensuality I crave. That means they are probably also raising a family and dealing with the cost of living crisis in real life, too. Travel/hotels/meals/dates with the but on the side are significant expenses I have to think about and I’m sure the men I’’m interested in do, too.
Flirty messages and photos give you a good idea, cheap date (coffee, bar, dog walk!) to decide they are not actually repugnant for some reason that cannot be communicated online…at that point I would say I’m either going to bow out gracefully or be ready to suck it and see!
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One 2 one - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:58AM
I tend to find if it doesn't happen within the second meet, it won't happen at all.
Teacher1956 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:57AM
I’ve had a few IE relationships over a decade. Two became sexual on the first date and the remainder definitely within a month.
GreyBeard48 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:15AM
Last time I met someone on a dating site (a long time ago now), I made it an absolute rule that I would be a gentleman: spend a couple of hours chatting, maybe a kiss, then walk away.
Didn't work, ended up in bed all afternoon, but at least I can say "she made me do it"!
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Oldboy 74 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 02:52PM
Whatever you feel is right at the time. That’s why you flirt first.
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Paula99 - 16 Mar, 2024 - 01:44PM
If you want a quick fix then couple of days chatting and then into the sack then if it works for you then go for it …
The question is can you sustain it …?
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Morninglory48 - 16 Mar, 2024 - 01:14PM
There really isn’t a time scale, if you’re both feeling it then just go with the flow and enjoy it, let’s put it this way we all joined here for a reason, for whatever that was, to improve our situation and get that excitement or spark back so just go with it if you’re both feeling comfortable with it…. But most of all enjoy it….
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Suzanne1983 - 16 Mar, 2024 - 12:43PM
Started chatting to someone Tuesday by Friday we were ripping each others clothes off 😜
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