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How quickly can a meeting become sexual?

How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?

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6foot3!! - 30 Apr, 2025 - 01:13PM

I suppose it all depends on the two individuals and what they expect. I’m guessing most people swap pics first to make sure they are attracted before the meet anyway?


SirrahNek - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:36AM

Davidnormal is correct. Take it slowly, take nothing for granted. Above all, don’t be desperate - and if you’re expecting something on a first date then maybe you’re on the wrong site? Actually, if you want something on the first date then maybe visit De Wallen instead?

You need to establish that connection. Is your date connect with you, does she want the same things as you? I certainly wouldn’t expect intimacy, not first time out anyway. Not to say that it won’t happen, of course, but good things come to those who wait.

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Davidnormal - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:16AM

No simple answer, it all depends on how it goes at the time. I would never take anything for granted and I'd expect to take things slowly. Plus you can chat as much as you like, but until you meet someone in real life it's impossible to say how strong the attraction is (or isn't). But there have been occasions when a genuine coffee date has unexpectedly led to scrabbling round to find the nearest available hotel room. You just don't know how it will go.

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enchanter - 26 Apr, 2025 - 09:46PM

A chance would be a fine thing for me. Been a few days as newbie but lots of fakes but if I did meet then would certainly want some intimacy on the first meet up. Even passionate kisses will be ok

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EmnEm123 - 25 Apr, 2025 - 06:48PM

@beware my love

You're contradicting yourself.

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Mrsx66 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 09:58PM


Well every first meeting I've had on IE it's been
Intimate in some way , so I guess it's all down to having that conection first

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beware my love - 24 Apr, 2025 - 09:11PM

When both like what they see hear and can not wait to touch

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1610442 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 08:42PM

P99

Ok 🤨


Paula99 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 05:17PM

Funguy ….
🙄


1610442 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 04:35PM

P99

Dono but it’s definitely a numbers game probably a lot less than you think considering there’s only about 400 active women users and very little in Edinburgh I’m going to say les than 50 so I’ll take shin the dark and say odds are better than you think less than 50-1


Not accounting for my charm and charisma 😂

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