Am I just panicking or should I be concerned?
I’ve been chatting to a guy on here since last October, and wanted to meet him, but due to a family bereavement on his side, a meet hasn’t happened yet.
Recently I’ve really wanted to meet him, but when I mention he says he can’t, as he’s too flakey and concentrating on his family. He has a habit of going awol from chats for weeks at a time, with no word, then comes back, and expects me to be ok about that.
This week he finally decided that he’s like to meet, but I’m worried about the circumstances. The hotel he’s picked is near his workplace, but a 40min drive for me, he doesn’t want to meet for a drink first, just go straight for sex. He’s picked the day, but hasn’t even asked me if it’s convenient for me.
My intuition is telling me to be careful, but I’m not sure if I’m just nervous, as this would be my first affair.
Could anyone that has more experience offer and guidance or gut feelings on this one?
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1482216 - 27 Feb, 2022 - 04:25PM
Get some self respect and run a million miles from this guy. He will not be your first affair. You will be a one-off fuck. He couldn't be clearer that he has absolutely no respect for you.
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1360266 - 27 Feb, 2022 - 08:51AM
He’s not worth it!
Epicland123 - 26 Feb, 2022 - 10:11PM
I would run a million miles away from this guy. You sound either very young or naive. I am sure you will find a proper date on here.
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1487483 - 26 Feb, 2022 - 06:25PM
Bin him - sounds dodgy to me.
No guarantee he'll turn up either if he's ghosted you previously.
Sadly there are a few men on here like that!
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gemini2310 - 26 Feb, 2022 - 05:42PM
This man is treating you terrible I would not allow anyone to treat me in this way but at the end of the day people will only treat you this way if you allow them to.I cannot believe you have not block him months ago and want to go to a hotel straight away for sex you need to kick him to the curb.
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1460763 - 26 Feb, 2022 - 03:57PM
Listen to your gut instincts! You are already having doubts. Dont do it....move on and find a true gent.
EmnEm123 - 26 Feb, 2022 - 01:15PM
@Macali76
It is made clear by the OP that her IE wants to go straight to sex with no thought for what she wants.
Why else would she apprehensive?
It's you who should have read the post, I'm sure we are all aware that you can have drinks in a hotel!
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Pink Eiga - 26 Feb, 2022 - 12:45PM
Ghosted for ages then meet in hotel for sex. 🤔
A one off hookup to alleviate some pent up desires, maybe. A genuine affair it isn’t.
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