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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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Looking4my50shades - 20 Mar, 2022 - 04:39PM

Omg always have lube on hand, you never know where things might lead too, it's not everyone's cup of tea but bum play can be erotic and fun but lube is needed


Sandokan1900 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 08:55AM

As long as i can have a fun, who cares


kindpassion - 18 Mar, 2022 - 11:51AM

I wouldn’t be offended, I bring it with me as a matter of course. Nothing to do with age, more a question of width 😅. Anything that helps anybody enjoy the moment has got to be good !

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1418715 - 16 Mar, 2022 - 03:57PM

I might be a bit soft in the head.....
If a woman reached for the lube it would be probably leave me overwhelmed and besotted.... 🤣😂
Any woman who has that level of confidence in her body and being who has taken a portion of her time to spend with me to be that close is going to be leaving me helpless with desire...
It's not about the lube, it's about the practicalities of making things work to the benefit of both involved.... Confidence is an intoxicating aphrodisiac.....

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Paula99 - 15 Mar, 2022 - 09:10PM

If you want great sex then does it matter what you use ...the important thing is communication..good sex is vital but great sex is a work in progress..😊

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Polycarbonate - 15 Mar, 2022 - 07:54PM

I needed it today as my fwb went to work on me with a 25mm dia. Dildo.

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1510783 - 15 Mar, 2022 - 07:51PM

"Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?"
I read this question as meaning that "If a woman pulled out lube to use on herself, before sex, would you be offended? Because you might think she's not aroused by you?"
For myself, not offended in the least bit - quite the opposite, in fact. It shows that (a) she wants to have the best possible sex with you and (b) she feels perfectly comfortable in your presence to do so. Besides, certain activities demand lube!

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acanthusuk - 15 Mar, 2022 - 07:19PM

No problem at all

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ClassyLady77 - 15 Mar, 2022 - 06:22PM

I don’t need lube but my Affair uses it.. I don’t mind it adds to the enjoyment.. 😉

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Abid296 - 15 Mar, 2022 - 06:09PM

Yes, i have used lube on ladies before - 55 and 60. they were fit and hot and needed some help with penetration. Otherwise you'd be waiting forever to get them wet. There is no issue with that.

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