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Should I start something at work?

My colleague smiles at me a lot. We have an obvious attraction to each other. But, she's my colleague. She doesn't have a ring on her finger, which could mean she's single but it could mean she just doesn't wear a ring. My ring is tattooed on. Is this too close to home?
 

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1490598 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 11:35PM

NO


1554570 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 10:43PM

God no, don’t go there. when it goes tits up you will still have to work together

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Delicious Chaos - 10 Mar, 2023 - 09:20PM

Just don’t, it’s not worth it and it can extremely messy and dangerous

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1586649 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 04:25PM

Having an affair with a friend or colleague (however fit you find them) is basically shitting on your own doorstep. When it ends, which it will, you'll wonder why you did it.

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1581027 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 03:07PM

Alongside not disclosing that you're having an affair to ANYONE, not having an affair at work or within your social circle are core opsec (operational security) fundamentals!

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Redfirefox - 10 Mar, 2023 - 02:43PM

Well said Cuilleog. I’ve submitted topics also 🤷‍♀️

Anyway I’m only going to repeat what most ppl have said anyways. If you don’t mind the office gossip and the risk of your dirty laundry being aired in public - Go for it.
Hopefully they’ll be no awkwardness when it inevitably finishes. Fingers crossed the other party doesn’t confide in fellow colleagues and then they don’t in turn confide in colleagues. Furthermore let’s hope you don’t lose your job when things come crashing down.
Yeah, can’t see a problem with work affairs. Sounds fun. 🤪

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1546412 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 02:18PM

On the substantive topic: No, no, no and no again. I got away with doing it in my 20s, with another Co worker also in her 20s. But not many of us are at that BS rage on this site, are we?

As to the topics- FFS, Illicit Encounters, please stop being so lazy and consider using the occasional new topic, instead of ENDLESSLY recycling the same ones Flirt Forum topics aren’t going to affect climate change, so you don’t have to re-use them again and again. I’ve submitted potential topics, and I’m sure others here have. I’ve seen the same topics over and over and over. 🙄

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Suzanna Foxwell - 10 Mar, 2023 - 01:30PM

Don't go there. At least one of you if not both will lose your jobs. That's if you're lucky. If you're unlucky you'll be trapped there with everyone saying what a bastard you are when it ends.

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1187286 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 01:21PM

No, no, no!!! I tried it once, many years ago. What a disaster.

Unless, it's with the love of your life (which seems unlikely) then I can't see how it can ever end well.


Paula99 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 12:42PM



This subject is doing the rounds ..AGAIN

If you are intelligent ..single ..married ..or living in sin ..then why would you want to get involved with someone at work ?
You are the topic of conversation.. the group dynamics alter and you drive everyone to distraction..it’s got nothing to do with jealousy or attention…just less work gets done..if you have a falling out then that manifests into the workplace ..which means you can cut the atmosphere with a knife ..in turn makes OP generally pissed off ..
Further down the line you get called in the office and told to ‘cool off your affair’ then you are walking around with face like thunder and then you expect your work colleagues to be sympathetic and you wonder if it was all worth the hassle???

Worst case scenario you could have a written warning or the sack for sexual harassment…why would you risk all of that ?😕

This should be in the rule book for cheaters …. Don’t shit on your own doorstep 😂

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