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mipaulac - 17 Nov, 2022 - 10:00PM

Paula99

I didn't mean yourself rather work collegues

Paula99 - 16 Nov, 2022 - 11:18AM

Mipaulac..

You have got to be joking !!?

I have the intelligence and the common sense not too but it happens at the work place.. yes it could be 2 single people but the outcome is the same in most cases😁

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mipaulac - 16 Nov, 2022 - 01:16AM

Paula99 - 13 Nov, 2022 - 12:27PM
Sounds like your speaking from experiance there ........did you fancy him ?? :-)
Like everything else it depends on the situation. Lets be honest the situation you allude to could occur between two single people or two already attached/ married when the one half finds out the other is cheating on IE !!!!

1533992 - 14 Nov, 2022 - 01:00AM

What would you do if someone at work found out you were on here.
Looking at some profiles that wouldnt be too difficult

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1558991 - 13 Nov, 2022 - 09:20PM

Oh yes certainly end in disaster MsAttitude

MsAttitude - 13 Nov, 2022 - 09:12PM

It’s far too close to home. The potential for things to go wrong or become public knowledge is massive, and things will get very difficult. I’ve made that mistake before and things very nearly ended in disaster.

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1558991 - 13 Nov, 2022 - 06:45PM

Massive NO affair is an affair know exactly what getting into

1558991 - 13 Nov, 2022 - 06:40PM

She gotta penny's worth in Paula99!!!

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Pleasurepole - 13 Nov, 2022 - 06:07PM

It’s a big No I’m afraid. An affair is an affair and at the end of the day you probably won’t leave your wife. Therefore a break up is inevitable which will bound to at least leave an atmosphere and friction at worst be intolerable and May end up one of you have to leave. Find someone on IE at least you’ll be on the same page right from the start.

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Paula99 - 13 Nov, 2022 - 12:27PM

Mipaulac…

Relationships have been (in the past) forged in the work place and have survived.. but people perceive affairs as the norm and treat them like a regular relationship.
The issue I have is how it affects your work colleagues and the behaviour in the work place….some are adult and discreet and you would never guess but others are blatantly obvious and tasks get ignored because the 2 involved are ignorant of their co workers and so the resentment begins then all of a sudden the affair is over …one is crying.. the other gets moved and the ‘team’ goes into meltdown..

Work is work and you should leave your ‘hobbies’ and emotions out of it… the majority of people cannot handle the ‘fallout’ and so everyone else has to suffer the consequences….

We need to be mindful of the people around us 😊

RealAffair… your right no good comes from this 😕

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