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Should I start something at work?

My colleague smiles at me a lot. We have an obvious attraction to each other. But, she's my colleague. She doesn't have a ring on her finger, which could mean she's single but it could mean she just doesn't wear a ring. My ring is tattooed on. Is this too close to home?
 

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Honeybeach75 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 10:11PM

Not worth the risk to be honest, too close to home.

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Smiling49 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 08:35PM

Anyone here from Suffolk?


Monicas55 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 08:20PM

Not at all go for it


1575857 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 08:07PM

At the end of the day no matter where it originates an affair starts to get close to home, so I'm not sure how different it is from something on IE. Definitely brightens up work in my experience.

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Jay122 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 07:31PM

It’s a big no no for me, would end up leading to problems for sure. I did have a fling about 25 years ago but I was in the junior position as it were’!


Elmothelmo - 24 Jul, 2023 - 07:16PM

Wouldn't risk if it you're senior and massively care about your job. If you've got other prospects then you can't beat the thrill of sneaking around the office


Smartypants65 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 06:53PM

My favourite is ‘don’t fish from the company pier’. Love it


Smartypants65 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 06:52PM

The best bits about this topic is the euphemisms : don’t sh*t on your own doorstep, don’t dip your pen in the same ink.. keep them coming!



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Funster77uk - 24 Jul, 2023 - 04:28PM

You only live once!


1612345 - 24 Jul, 2023 - 02:35PM

Sounds like you need to do a little more basic research as to whether or not she is married; whether or not she understands that you're married (if that's what your finger tattoo means) and so on. Once you've established that you have to find out what the office rules are on inter-staff relationships and then ask yourself how much of a risk you're prepared to take with your current marital status for the sake of an office fling (and maybe your job). Unless you have your own executive office with an overnight suite for working late, it usually means a hotel, so…
But honestly? The excitement of an affair is NOT having to see the same person day in, day out.

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