Performance Ratings???
I read something in the papers recently about people secretly giving performance ratings to their lovers and it made me think. Do you do that? Also, if your lover is insecure enough to ask, would you be honest or would you say of course you are top rated to make them feel better? Discuss!
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ExoticOrchid - 22 May, 2023 - 11:16AM
Future-Atom - 22 May, 2023 - 10:02AM
You read the Daily Mail???
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1408586 - 22 May, 2023 - 10:04AM
If I have had a good experience I would want to see someone again. I think that is the best indicator. If it wasn’t great- I just move on. I’m not looking to train anyone up!
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1599959 - 22 May, 2023 - 10:02AM
Sounds like something in the daily mail lol
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Johnnylondon - 22 May, 2023 - 09:53AM
Wow! That's a crazy thought. No, it would even occur to me to give a performance rating as tonicwithissaid (nice joke btw) it takes two to tango.
I've never asked for or been asked for feedback that, to me is something you have fun with during sex.
With ladies being so different, down to what side of the clit is more sensitive) then the feedback is in the reactions of the receiver no?
Plus there's the chat In-between about what you do and don't like / would or would not like to try. I just don't see the need for a performance review rating.
Or maybe I'm the odd one 🤷♂️
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1408586 - 22 May, 2023 - 09:29AM
I don’t give marks out of 10! But I would be able to rank from best to worst. My current lover being best obviously 😉
If someone asked me for feedback on their performance I would find that very off putting though. Sex should be mutual to be fully enjoyed
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tonicwithice - 22 May, 2023 - 09:25AM
Marks out of ten? I'd give 'em one.
That's got that out of the way! More seriously I think it's a little bit odd as it takes 2 to tango. That said I'm sure there are some people out there with a spreadsheet and/or an improvement plan with a SMART objective.
Pete likes wine - 22 May, 2023 - 09:25AM
OMG what a topic! We are surrounded by performance metrics in all ways through life - so no I detest the idea of giving my lover or my lover giving me a performance rating - but I am not adverse to hearing that wasn't as good as when you did x y and z and vice versa etc - because that way you understand you lover better and help meet there inner desires but no not ratings!!
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