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Performance Ratings???


I read something in the papers recently about people secretly giving performance ratings to their lovers and it made me think. Do you do that?  Also, if your lover is insecure enough to ask, would you be honest or would you say of course you are top rated to make them feel better? Discuss!

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Paula99 - 22 May, 2023 - 02:38PM

This is a complete and utter load of bollox that will create a nightmare for everyone..

Everyone has a different standard and ideals about what is good and what isn’t ..someone will tell you there is a great place to eat you should try it ..when you get there you think this isn’t the place for me ..

It will also achieve more performance anxiety …more negative feedback and more worry’s than we already have and that’s too much 👎👎


Whoever thought of this question needs to get out more 😖

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dirkdiggler96 - 22 May, 2023 - 02:31PM

All my ratings are 11/10, the women can barely breathe afterwards let alone score me on an app.

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1454768 - 22 May, 2023 - 02:23PM

Performance ratings is not a good idea. But I always wondered if us men and some girls would behave better if there was Airbnb style feedback. It would stop alot of angry men with small penises turning their rejection into anger of they knew every other women would hear about it, for instance
What else would you rate?

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Engbizman - 22 May, 2023 - 02:18PM

Never understood the need to objectify or quantify something like this.
It’s two people ( well could be more) each giving and receiving pleasure. Depends on the context, the time, the circumstances.

I would always encourage and work on things to be better.


1598862 - 22 May, 2023 - 02:03PM

On many occasioins I,ve listened to both men & women talk / rate lovers etc and mafe me smile i had not really thought about my own performace when i was married 30 years ! .
I guess i did begin once i started to date again ,i was 50 at this point and would lay with my lover thinking i hope she liked it .
It will always be different with other people i find even now its really easy to talk aboit it and learn from eacher other ,make it fun and enjoy .


Blueyes335 - 22 May, 2023 - 01:27PM

On meeting your IE, 'Please hold while I reset my HowWellDidYouDoMeter. Calibration must be completed before we can begin'.

Cracking start to a romantic/sexual/sensual or other encounter..

Might be having an off day or two, self included.

If you're unable to constructively say how you'd like it to be, you need to grow a pair.

Or just enjoy the moment, shy, non confident, all play a role

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James319 - 22 May, 2023 - 12:27PM

Anyone from glasgow here? Also yes you would definitely know about it if you’re hitting all the right spots


SecretCompany - 22 May, 2023 - 12:08PM

If you’re doing it right, you’ll know!


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ExoticOrchid - 22 May, 2023 - 11:16AM

Dear god, no lol. But it sounds like the rubbish they'd print.


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tonicwithice - 22 May, 2023 - 09:25AM

Marks out of ten? I'd give 'em one. - hahaha someone always says this to me!

I think what Becky says is true - if it is rubbish are you going to bother arranging to see each other again.......

Do I rate them nope - just know when it's Great or if it is dire...... As Johnny says each experience is different with a different person and can you really rate ... I take each encounter as they cum ;)

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