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Indiandelight85 - 15 Aug, 2023 - 05:31PM

The brutal truth is performance ratings are totally given however only discussed with mates you trust.
Nice guy, good lover, but can't perform for a long time, has to be an area to vent about. Lol

Discussions to spice up sex with your lover are super important.
Moto "Spice" not criticise 😁
I just came up with that

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TJJ89_fun - 15 Aug, 2023 - 05:21PM

I’d love to discuss these things with a partner, what’s the worst that could happen? You both learn new things that the other person enjoys and make sex between you even better? 😂

ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2023 - 05:06PM

Hedone - 04:04PM

Now your comment made me laugh! 🤣

SixtiesOriginal - 15 Aug, 2023 - 04:29PM

I guess performance ratings have a place in society but not in the bedroom. . . Surely people looking on here know what they are looking for and can discuss sex with their preferred other partner.
Although chance would be a fine thing. . . 62 year old rocker/bikers are not in favour on here so not thinking I'll be discussing likes, desires, position or kinks anytime soon or ever on here. Rating your partner. . .! No it's purile and stupid.

Delicious Chaos - 15 Aug, 2023 - 04:04PM

Needle in a haystack

Ahem, is that in your dreams or in your reality?

Dear oh dear 🤦🏻‍♀️

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1614977 - 15 Aug, 2023 - 03:17PM

I get told I’m the best they have ever experienced pretty much every time and that their body shakes for hours afterwards. Bizarrely though I’d never rated myself that good, not particularly confident normally but I must be doing it right 😂

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Gentle Man Jim - 15 Aug, 2023 - 02:17PM

@Paula99: very well said, quite right. That’s a 10 out of 10 post for me…….

Funguy77 - 15 Aug, 2023 - 01:51PM

Man this place makes me laugh out loud. I’m sitting in my office getting funny looks 😂

But saying that Iv never had any complaints but I would like to know 🤔

Paula99 - 15 Aug, 2023 - 01:33PM

Back in the day my friend and I dated the same guy ( at different times 🙄) and he had a 9 inch whacker …my mate slept with him and obviously we talked about his asset and the pain involved ..I decided ’ I ain’t going there ‘ … his performance was never in question…
Fast forward to 2023 I find that sometimes we are incapatable in bed but to ‘rate your lover’ performances is wrong on all counts and if you want to find a long term lover then your going the wrong way about it ..
If you are looking for a quick shag round the back of the local pub then by all means but it’s over in 10 minutes so how can you put a rate to this ?

Guys and girls are all guilty of lying back and thinking of England but just because the sex is shit …is it right to post their performance rates on some dating website
No no no never…
No wonder people are so messed up 😖

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1617269 - 15 Aug, 2023 - 12:18PM

I have never rated my lover and he hasn’t me…
We’ve always talked about our sexual needs and requirements. The sex was always amazing but if something didn’t feel right then we’d have a laugh about it and agree maybe that wasn’t for us and move on.

Totally agree with with @LifeBalance.