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1575958 - 30 Jun, 2023 - 09:33PM

I have to agree with Life balance. If you're just looking for meaningless sex there are sites available for that.

I can only speak for myself, but I'm not interested in casual encounters that I can then rate. I want a connection, something real. I'm hoping not the only one...

LifeBalance - 30 Jun, 2023 - 06:42PM

If someone is rating someone on a website then they’re not really lovers. They’re just hooking up for a meaningless shag. It’s bound to be pretty crap because there hasn’t been time to develop a connection. You only get that by getting to know each other & learning what really turns each other on.

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tislookingup - 30 Jun, 2023 - 03:24PM

I'm sure women must realise that a large number of men, here, are `racking-up the numbers' as they bounce around the country?
Often the women they meet are given ratings on Sex Punter Sites where, affectively, men compare the lady's `performance' for general perusal. It's almost like pass-the-parcel, in a distant sort of way.

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BlindingPleasure - 28 Jun, 2023 - 10:10AM

Going to share a funny story about performance. I was with this guy, met at hotel, started kissing undressing and he apologised and said he needed the toilet.

After a rather long wait he returned looking uncomfortable. Few more kisses and then the smell hit like a brick. He told me he has been for dinner at his sister's and the chicken was not fully done ....so u know what that smell was. 💩💩💩💩

I was overwhelmed with it and decided no thanks.

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1575958 - 20 Jun, 2023 - 01:54PM

Im not the type to kiss and tell. That's between me and the other person. I'm also not here to judge, everyone is different and has different levels of experience. There is also the matter of what they will, or more importantly, won't do.

Enjoy the moment I say and chalk it up to experience.

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pariahd - 15 Jun, 2023 - 06:22PM

I was chatting to woman who took great pains to describe how inadequate her former lover had been in very graphic terms.

Didn’t exactly enamour her to me as I thought I’d end up being next if I ventured there.

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pariahd - 15 Jun, 2023 - 06:22PM

I was chatting to woman who took great pains to describe how inadequate her former lover had been in very graphic terms.

Didn’t exactly enamour her to me as I thought I’d end up being next if I ventured there.

Paula99 - 10 Jun, 2023 - 03:58PM

Room 101 for this subject …

Confucius say …

If you want to deal in revenge …dig 2 graves

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Kitten55 - 09 Jun, 2023 - 03:21PM

Gosh that’s so subjective isn’t it, and the same person on a different day would surely rate differently? I think it’s either good and worth it or it’s not and the communication needs to be there. I think I’m confident enough to say what I like and what I don’t but if given the ick at any point… we’ll the ick is hard to recover from but I’m guessing they must score quite highly in order to have fit to that stage. I never do ONS and this whole thing made me wonder what kind of interactions other people have or what they really want.
I want different things at different times too.
Is this really a thing?
If it was the rating would be honest but my reaction would probably be enough for the rating to be clear- “this isn’t really working for me” is fairly difinitive but that slides my mean if the ‘this’ changed it still wouldn’t. Sometimes it takes time to learn each other but the effort needs to be worth it to begin with.

Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2023 - 10:53AM

Oh! Dear lord…

Some comments from the (coughs) male side of things on here… laughable.

Excuse me… whilst I examine my nails 😏😉😂.

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