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Enigma.. - 04 Jul, 2023 - 07:53AM

I find it laughable that a lot of male members have written on their profiles….

“Looks unimportant” or “I don’t have a type”.

Yet when it comes to exchanging passwords back comes the comment….

“You’re not my type”!?!

Really! So I point out the fact they have written on their profile “looks unimportant/I don’t have a type” and politely suggest that perhaps they should remove or change that.

But they won’t do that.

Why? Because it will narrow down their playing field.

Looks are, very obviously, important to some and they, very obviously, do have a type.

As for when is the right time to exchange passwords?

It doesn’t really matter whither it’s sooner or later if it’s going to end in the same result 🤷🏼‍♀️.

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Sandypops - 04 Jul, 2023 - 02:27AM

For me personally, it's so much about the chat. Of course, there has to be something each of us finds attractive about the other, but a man with really good banter becomes much more attractive than a man with next to none. In my two and a half months on here, I've found myself attracted to a few men who are completely different from each other physically. But what they all have had in common is the banter and ability to make me laugh.
I always used to swap pw almost immediately but have recently found that I don't always feel the need to do so and have even moved to chatting elsewhere without having seen each other first!

And for those lovely ladies who gave me some advice before, I still don't know if I have found my ie. I'm hopeful that I might have but OMG this whole thing is proving a massive 🤯
I thought it was meant to be us women who were complicated 🤦🏻‍♀️
So, I've decided I'm taking a break from chatting to anyone new, at least for the time being, and I've updated my profile ac

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CharlieFx - 03 Jul, 2023 - 11:48PM

I have public pics but my private ones are of a more explicit nature so exchanging early actually stops guys from chatting as they’re too busy “doing” something else over my pics..

You have to peak my interest first before we’re swapping!

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1546721 - 03 Jul, 2023 - 11:09PM

Exchange passwords early as I prefer to see who I am chatting too .

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Parttimebf - 03 Jul, 2023 - 10:40PM

i am probably a 6 or a 7 on a good day, but because im Chinese...that rating is useless.... no chinese are ever rated...are they ? when was the last time you saw a handsome chinese face on tv?
so, for me i literally have to put it on my public profile...but this platform somehow wont let me do it?!

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AdorableOne - 03 Jul, 2023 - 10:06PM

After a few msgs I offer my pwd, or get offered pwds, its better to just get it done tbh. Nothing worse than chatting for days and then exchanging pics and finding you don't like each other, that is more awkward!

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1594987 - 03 Jul, 2023 - 09:14PM

Within the first day if I sensed good energy.
The eyes are the windows to the soul

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1606617 - 03 Jul, 2023 - 08:05PM

I never really suggest swapping passwords until the female suggests it, like some of have said, you don’t want to waste time but also don’t want to come across as too eager

In short, there’s no wrong or right answer to this!

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Onekissmore - 03 Jul, 2023 - 05:53PM

Exchanging password early on stops wasting time for both parties, and there should be no hard feelings if you’re not each other’s type

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Funtobe22 - 03 Jul, 2023 - 05:47PM

Would like to chat a few times before exchanging passwords- facial doesn’t bother me but sense of humour probably be a bit naughty would be expected