Comments (175)

1575958 - 06 Aug, 2023 - 11:19PM

Pardon the frustration, but if there was anyone on here within 100 miles I'd be godsmacked. If by the luck of the gods they then read ant message I sent and replied it would truly be a miracle.

 2 members like this comment.

1529050 - 04 Aug, 2023 - 12:27PM

I guess being lazy and in London never really had to worry too much about distance, but for me a long distance just would not work, it would be far too complicated to work out excuses and if I got stuck 200 miles from home what would my reason for being there be?

 2 members like this comment.

Arsinoe - 03 Aug, 2023 - 10:11PM

I think it’s perfect to be honest. Keeps it fresh and less likelihood of getting caught as meeting less frequently. It only really works if one party travels for work.

Paula99 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 08:30PM

Secret D…

I had a similar affair a few year back but I was in my early 40.s …it’s not something I would do at my age but it can work as you have shown…😁

1614914 - 03 Aug, 2023 - 07:21PM

I think it can definitely enchance the affair, for the right person the travelling is worth it.
I’ve had 1 long term affair with a man who lives just under 4hrs away and i travelled 200 miles round trip each time.

 1 member likes this comment.

ExoticOrchid - 03 Aug, 2023 - 06:49PM

GMJ - 04:11PM

My point exactly ... it can (and does) work but one party needs to put in the extra effort (like you did with the travelling).

Gentle Man Jim - 02 Aug, 2023 - 08:26PM

Thankyou P99
It is good to know that affairs can be cherished and enjoyed without being sordid or nasty and I know it conflicts all morals but it can definitely improve life!
😇

 3 members like this comment.

Paula99 - 02 Aug, 2023 - 08:02PM

GMJ…

Sounds like you had a absolutely fabulous affair…Welsh ladies do put in the effort 😉..clearly you both put in the extra 10 % and yes it can be done with the ‘right ‘ couple 😁

 2 members like this comment.

Gentle Man Jim - 02 Aug, 2023 - 04:14PM

@Enigma, you are very funny! Don’t leave. The world needs your sort of person!!!!

Gentle Man Jim - 02 Aug, 2023 - 04:11PM

Totally agree with you all on long distance being unlikely to work, but….. in my late ‘30’s I had a long and very happy affair with a married lady who was in Wales some 3 hours from me.
I would drive up early. Sometimes stay nearby or even with her if her hubby was away out of the country.
We had five years of a fabulous affair which fizzled naturally and we remained friends secretly for a good while after.
It was a lovely thing and so it can work but I would say not often!!

 2 members like this comment.