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1616941 - 16 Aug, 2023 - 09:33PM

I’ve only been on here a few days but…It seems to me that the next county makes most sense, if only because if I check into a hotel I don’t want to be looking over my shoulder to see if any of my friends are out for dinner 🤣 and by driving for 40 minutes or so I’d assume there is a smaller possibility of meeting someone with whom I have social connections. Not that I have any experience in that regard but I have spent a long time daydreaming…

JimmyG789 - 16 Aug, 2023 - 03:32PM

Like many have said it all depends upon the details , it's a nuanced reply

If you want to see each other but life circumstances mean once a month is all you can do, well distance is less of an issue isn't it ?

I've has this kind of relationship and how it worked for us was I'd book us into a lovely hotel for an all day extravaganza of fun supplemented with room service.

I've also experienced the "close enough to catch up for a coffee after work" affair.

They were both wonderful ....

It's the details that make it work or not

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4KingGeorge - 16 Aug, 2023 - 01:35PM

I think it’s different for each situation, I’m able to travel quite freely and frequently to certain areas as I travel as part of my job. Midweek meet up is possible for me traveling 2 to 3 hours but for others that’s impossible for a number of reasons.

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1617420 - 16 Aug, 2023 - 12:37PM

Depends on people's situations. Some may not be prepared to travel due to finical, logistical & personal constraints. Others may prefer the distance if it means they can conduct an illicit affair away from home with little to zero chance of being seen or caught.

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Funguy77 - 16 Aug, 2023 - 12:15PM

Makes it a little more difficult but can be worthwhile x

Funguy77 - 08 Aug, 2023 - 04:17PM

Nice one hope you have safe fun

1575958 - 08 Aug, 2023 - 01:49PM

@funguy77

I've been on here for a few months and it's not my first time on this pony. I know it takes time and patience and I have also chatted to some lovely ladies.

@Enigma

I know exactly where Ayr is and it's closer to me than London. Still talking about 3-4 hours by road...

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Enigma.. - 07 Aug, 2023 - 07:26AM

Last year I was messaged by several males from down south, especially the London area, who thought it was easy for me to just hop onto a plane and fly to an airport to meet them.
Sure…. An hour’s plane journey in nothing to some.
But trains, taxis and flights all cost money and take up time.
I really wish that some males on the site would Google where Ayr actually is before sending me a message.
Saves wasting both our times 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.

Funguy77 - 07 Aug, 2023 - 07:22AM

@tarnished knight
It takes time . I have only been on her for 4 weeks and I have had lots of lovely chat and two meets
But what I will say is that 90% of the women on here won’t make the first move

Sandypops - 07 Aug, 2023 - 12:26AM

As I've said before, I love a road trip and am more than happy to travel and I have the time to travel.
My question though to those of you having affairs (or having had affairs) with people a long way away is .... how do you cope with only meeting infrequently? If of course you do only meet infrequently. Do you men end up with one arm looking like pop-eyes forearm and do you ladies have a ridiculously huge electricity bill 😂

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