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1622807 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 10:45PM

The quality I most desire here is professionalism. Give me a 6/10 looker who is committed, reliable and sexually engaging than a 9/10 who is undecided and breadcrumbing.

1630140 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 09:22AM

Baldies or shaved head, there’s a difference there, some guys maybe can’t grow it and want to, or are more than happy, some of us like to shave it, razor job, much cleaner and feels better. Either way, not enough love for the smooth dome, it feels nice when stroked, I’m often sat stroking it myself.😁

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Pink Eiga - 25 Oct, 2023 - 08:33PM

ExoticOrchid - 25 Oct, 2023 - 08:04PM

It is truly awkward when that happens!

Height, physique, age, smoker status…..easily verifiable items. Just be honest about it and not waste anybody’s time 😋

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ExoticOrchid - 25 Oct, 2023 - 08:04PM

Can I just say this ... yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder and yes everyone's idea of beauty (or even weight/size) is different BUT height is height so please gentlemen, be honest about your height, please!!!

I am 5'2" so it isn't difficult for majority of men to be taller than me ... even if I'm wearing (modest) heels I will be no taller than 5'5" max!

Therefore if a man says he is 5'6" to 5'11" OR 6' and above on his profile, I don't expect to be eye level with him when we meet!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1630140 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 05:54PM

Some mad comments, gotta say, as generalisation’s go then ok but not everyone lies about not caring about looks and seeing photos, they’re not a good representation of someone anyway, personality is everything and if people don’t buy that then, ok. Jmho.

1630140 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 02:51PM

I don’t think a lot of men would even know what this means.
‘Yeah, you’ve got something about ya’
‘Well they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder’
‘You’ve fuckin lost me’

1630140 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 01:38PM

Describe themselves as attractive and your not interested, doesn’t describe themselves in this way so you chat for a while then see pics, not interested. Lol.

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boav91 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 11:59AM

I think I am joining this a bit late. At 79 if I am still able to walk to town and back I will be happy never mind swimming in the sea. Very impressive Dotty.

I think no two people are attracted to exactly the same thing and also pictured rarely capture the sparkle that some people have in person. I often find pictures give only part of the story of someone and you have to get to know them a bit to see the real person. I have found that classically attractive people become less so when you get to know their personalities and vice versa classically less attractive people become far more so when you have spent time with them.

What really annoys me is that rarely is the effort made to get past those superficial photos. Even if people say they want to they don't. If people dont want a relationship and just a quick hop in bed then go for looks, but if you want more then you have to make the effort to get past the superficial and then I think it is definitely in the eye of the beholder.

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1529050 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 07:46AM

All welcome to join my 🧶 club I’ll provide the 🐠 n 🍟

All that swimming 🏊🏻‍♀️ in the Cornish sea is the secret Mr Puff

This old dear appreciates all of your lovely comments x

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Paula99 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 05:28AM

🙏🏼…

I sincerely hope that I am going to be hot at 79 and still beable to knit 🧶 🧶 a couple of balls ..

😉😁

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