Connection
What is this elusive 'connection' everyone is looking for? Someone I chatted to, just on messages, seemed to believe we had a 'connection' because we were messaging! Connection for me is something only found in its real sense on meeting.
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Enigma.. - 29 Oct, 2023 - 05:39PM
I didn’t have an instant connection with my second Ie but we were both interested enough to meet up again for a second date.
We were more relaxed second time around and that’s when we started to really connect.
Unfortunately a lot of males on this site are so dismissive.
Everyone has to realise that there might not be an instant connection but given time…
Just saying 😉😊💋
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R Deckard - 28 Oct, 2023 - 08:35PM
A genuine connection is like the Loch Ness monster.
Much talked about, rarely seen.
It doesn't stop the hordes from looking for it.
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1630653 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 05:54PM
A connection is simply that, an alignment of aspirations, backgrounds, and beliefs. The problem is people think it’s permanent, whilst it’s always in flux. People change, the bonds between two individuals strengthen and weaken throughout life as situations change. A lifelong connection is the rarest of things, but everybody seems to want to believe it’s the norm. Perhaps these short term intense connections are the more genuine article, though whether that can be achieved via messaging is doubtful.
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1631693 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 04:26PM
It doesn’t mean anything. You hit it off or just get on, ‘connecting’ and ‘we get each other’ , nah. Enjoy why you have as long as you have it.
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Son Of Loki - 28 Oct, 2023 - 10:14AM
During my life I have had 3 very strong connections, it’s effortless, heady and the summit of experience.
With all three, arguments were a feature, , but this introduces a sense of jeopardy that enhanced the intimacy and put it on steroids .
I know what to look for but not sure if she exists on an app, time will tell..
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1408586 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 09:55AM
Same Paula99 🤗
boav91 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 08:45AM
@ sandy pops You will find someone . You deserve to
@paula I think it is out there but just sometimes not easy to find. Took me 7 months and some not as good experiences to find it when I was not expecting it . You know what it is like so I guess you keep trying. Nothing wrong with fussy
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Paula99 - 28 Oct, 2023 - 05:47AM
I have only ever felt the ‘absolute’ connection with one guy …others have come close to the mark…… he was my friend/confidant and lover and I don’t think I can find it twice in a lifetime….sadly…it was there from the beginning of the relationship and it I just knew this one was different…the sex was passionate.. mind blowing and everlasting …..maybe I am a little fussy 😂😂
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Sandypops - 28 Oct, 2023 - 12:49AM
Boav91, as always you express yourself so eloquently. Perfectly put. 🤞🏼 I'll find it with someone other than you know who 🤦🏻♀️
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