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Legs&Eyes - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:28PM

Davidingles - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:06PM

You can see any male profile you wish to see. You just search for it / change your criteria OR type their user name in the search.

And of course the profiles arent 'deleted' they are still there.. yes.

BUT I get a lot of 'online' contact, I get hardly any 'hidden profile' contact, so hence if I'm wanting to be a bit more shaded 'from the noise' - then its a good way to do it. And it certainly doesnt mean I'm playing games - in fact, its completely the opposite!

1326897 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:27PM

Paula

Hi. Or indeed as I am sure you meant to also say :

he must be getting it on with other girls’ …

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Paula99 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:21PM

Having a ‘hidden profile’ can mean several things …..if you are naturally suspicious then the first conclusion will be ‘she must be getting it on with other guys’ …
IE has its own fair share of nuts …desperados…fake profiles…ghosts …undead …penpals…jilly cooper wannabes…profile avioidance…picture hunters..and general pests ..it’s like one guy used to say ….’ You can’t make this stuff up ‘😁
My profile was hidden for weeks as I kept getting the same guys that had previously messaged and I had replied with a polite message ….
Having a hidden profile means the genuine guys that do read my profile get noticed…..

Happy hunting …😁

1326897 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:08PM

Oh and it does not prevent contact. I had a brief affair with a woman whose profile was Hidden Before, during and after our relationship

1326897 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 02:06PM

EO
L&E
One of the points I was trying to make is that Hidden Profiles are not actually hidden hence it’s obvious when a woman is on line regardless.
I am sure men do the same but of course I cannot see their profiles. I meant no offence.
But ladies. 40%?? Something’s going on.

Legs&Eyes - 07 Nov, 2023 - 12:00PM

Davidingles - 07 Nov, 2023 - 11:10AM

To reiterate what Exotic said...
because I'm very loyal in conversations, I often hide my profile whilst I'm establishing a connection and to stay loyal to one regular chat.... interestingly whilst remaining hidden for a whole week last week, the guy was on here every day wide openly searching - despite telling me he was 'chatting to no-one else'. Haha..... yeah, of course!

Its bulls**t.
A lot of guys here operate like boys in a sweet shop....
And a lot of ladies here are not, as you believe, playing the field.

There is good and bad on BOTH sides my friend!

NB - I'm no longer hidden!

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ExoticOrchid - 07 Nov, 2023 - 11:23AM

Davidingles - 11:10AM

Can I just point out that a hidden profile doesn't always mean your general assumption which is tarring everyone with a broad brush ... for me, it stops random messages from the scatter gunners on the site and only those who take the time to read one's profile make contact.

I couldn't give a monkey's who knows whether I'm logged on or not. In fact I comment here regularly so I'm hardly "hiding" in the sense you are implying.

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1326897 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 11:10AM

@Beckysharp

In the area of my search on average 40% of women have hidden profiles. I reckon they believe that anyone they are chatting with will assume they are not online, which is not the case. Hidden profiles still come up in any last log in search, thus defeating the object of hiding them. I don't think you should assume they have found someone, but rather they are playing the field without that someone knowing.

1296520 - 02 Nov, 2023 - 10:13AM

Sense of humour, mutual respect, that chemistry of physical attraction, the desire to see each other, shared values & probably in a similar situation to yourself (relationship wise)

1447655 - 31 Oct, 2023 - 10:32AM

A lot of people when they say 'connection' mean physical attraction. Which is not necesarily the same thing as a sexual connection. Shared interests and lifestyle can be a connection, although that's friendship, surely, without either physical attraction or sexual connection?

Neither of those are 'it'. It's where even though they are an unknown, there is something strangley familiar there, like an echo of something you knew and forgot. It's where you might be from completely different backgrounds but there is a mirroring of what's inside. Your keys and locks turn on each other and the mechanism turns around...and there's the 'click', right there. (And it's not always a good/positive thing either, its hard to find and hard to walk away from, but it can be explosive sexually.)

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