Comments (39)

1447655 - 01 Jan, 2024 - 10:33AM

Both Hedone and Paula talking a lot of sense here. I'm the same - my social life is my own. This type of partner sounds suffocating. I couldn't have got married to that to begin with!

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Delicious Chaos - 31 Dec, 2023 - 01:30PM

Wow every river and you said?

If you’re dealing with a partner who has cheated on you then they will probably know every trick in the book, particularly if they are female

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BustyBoo22 - 31 Dec, 2023 - 09:22AM

She is either already suspicious of you or she is very very controlling.

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1635363 - 30 Dec, 2023 - 09:56PM

My partner wanted access to my google account long before I considered IE and having an affair
Thinking that she is suspicious because of her infidelity.

1390490 - 30 Dec, 2023 - 08:50PM

Life360......You either go for the life you want or settle for the life you get...The choice is yours.

Paula99 - 30 Dec, 2023 - 06:35PM

The clue is ….separate lives???

If you have been glued to your partner for the best part of your life …I can’t see how you are going to achieve your wishes….nothing is impossible but having separate hobbies/friends /passtimes then your ‘excuses’ are already imprinted..
If you start changing your lifestyle overnight then you ‘WILL’ get discovered..sooner or later…

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Delicious Chaos - 30 Dec, 2023 - 04:52PM

Not necessarily.
A wife does not need to track her husband or vice versa unless they have suspicions already and are using that as an excuse.
By all means track the kids if they are under 18, but once anyone turns 18 there is no reason to track anyone. If anyone can give a good reason to do it then please tell.


Having an affair boils down to the basics. Have a separate life with separate friends before you are married and during it. If you are not chained to each other and never have been then the flexibility is there to do as you please, within reason. Just because I have a ring on my finger does not make me someone’s piece of property that they need to know my whereabouts 24/7.

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ExoticOrchid - 30 Dec, 2023 - 10:09AM

The trouble is, once you refuse to have the App, your spouse is going to be suspicious (if they aren't already!) ... so those of you who have the cajones to say no better be extra careful about your IE activities!!!

(believe me 99.9% of wives WILL be suspicious ... I was a wife once!)

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1607344 - 30 Dec, 2023 - 12:03AM

Refuse to have the app!

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olddog70 - 29 Dec, 2023 - 08:35PM

Easy. Just turn off the location facility of your phone. It might stop the government from tracking you too. Maybe!!!😜