Kind let down?
Hi. I'm new here so this might have been asked before but how do you let
people down gently after seeing pics?
I'm not a horrible person and certainly don't think I'm all that but
sometimes you are just not attracted to them, don't want to hurt their
feelings but equally don't want to waste anyone's time.
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LadyDe - 13 Feb, 2024 - 10:42PM
Ok I don’t get this …. I’ve NEVER blocked anyone.. if you’re polite and honest then they don’t push it …
If I see a pic I don’t like i just say I’m taken and good luck or bet I’m not your thing (bright red hair) when I give them the idea and PW they normally say “yep you’re right” 🤣
FluffyClouds - 13 Feb, 2024 - 10:36PM
I can't see what's so difficult about this.
There shouldn't be any need to make up excuses like 'you remind me of my boss', 'you remind me of my husband', which seems to be prevalent on here. These excuses are 'old' and known to men. Just be honest and polite, we can't and won't fancy everyone.
1647352 - 13 Feb, 2024 - 10:19PM
So started chatting with a member thought we had things in common no pics swapped she just blocked me hurt my feelings a bit best to let people know there not interested rather than just being rude
Cityspingirl - 10 Feb, 2024 - 10:49AM
I just say that’s are handsome but remind me of my husband- that ends it.
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Laura Somerset - 10 Feb, 2024 - 10:29AM
I just type " really wouldn't be interested. Sorry. Take care "
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Paula99 - 06 Feb, 2024 - 04:24PM
It’s all well and good but some just can’t do rejection and they take it personally..
If I was in a pub I am not guaranteed to ‘fancy’ anyone and vice versa…we can’t like everyone …it would be much easier if we did 😂
If you swap pictures and the OP does a better disappearing act than Paul Daniels….then he’s not worth knowing and you had a lucky escape..👍
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Funguy77 - 06 Feb, 2024 - 02:00PM
😡 A kind let down would be nice. Don’t understand why swap phone numbers if you are going to ghost me
So annoying …….. #youareblocked
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1643329 - 06 Feb, 2024 - 01:00PM
Best to be honest and say they are not your type. Nothing wrong with that.... I'd rather be told rather than wondering
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Can't Find A Username - 03 Feb, 2024 - 12:36AM
Just say that they look nice but are not your type. Simples!
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giggly hamster - 02 Feb, 2024 - 11:52AM
@LadyDe,
you're just showing off now.
:(
(sad face brought to you curtesy of the early 2000's)
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