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Kind let down?

Hi. I'm new here so this might have been asked before but how do you let
people down gently after seeing pics?

I'm not a horrible person and certainly don't think I'm all that but
sometimes you are just not attracted to them, don't want to hurt their
feelings but equally don't want to waste anyone's time.

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giggly hamster - 02 Feb, 2024 - 11:23AM

Tentatrice,

ok, so I was under the impression that person A had asked for PW, got pics and then person B had asked for PW in return and person A had refused.

So if that wasn't the case then fine I appologise unreservedly.

As far as Hedone was concerned, mr pic or no pic, well, He-done.

I never go to bed on an argument. You never know if that person is going to be there the next day.

You can waste a lot of energy wprrying about things you can't change.

As it is, I'm not getting dressed up or anyone today, so it's the comfy troosers and the big pants.

It's all forgotten.

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1644733 - 02 Feb, 2024 - 09:38AM

Giggly's comments have brightened up my day! 👍

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1639246 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 08:49PM

@Dr Kink
Couldn’t agree more. For me it really is that simple.


1637273 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 08:28PM

The golden rule is not to ghost. Especially if they've shared a photo. It certainly made me feel shitty.

Just a quick. "Thankyou for the photos but you're not quite my type". You seem really nice, I'm sure you'll find someone soon" or suchlike

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LadyDe - 01 Feb, 2024 - 03:29PM

@Giggly Hamster

I feel like you’ve had a hard time today so I’ll be nice and leave you with a gift …

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️💁‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sorry couldn’t resist it

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Delicious Chaos - 01 Feb, 2024 - 03:16PM

Giggly
I actually take offence of your comment and reading between the lines, low blow!
So a guy who sends his password in a first message (yes it happens) you expect me to send mine?
Thanks. I’ll stick to my way of doing things 👏

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Delicious Chaos - 01 Feb, 2024 - 03:11PM

Erm I’ve just come back to this thread
Just to confirm
1. I have given my password first
2. If a guy says no and he doesn’t send his back I’m actually quite alright with that. Why would I want to see the face of someone I’m never going to speak to again?

Courtesy or not, it’s everyone’s personal choice. Remember we’re on an illicit dating site, if I sent my password to every guy that sends his I would be putting my pictures out there far more than I would want it to be, especially if I know it’s not going further. Don’t know about anyone else but I prefer discretion and what works for me.

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giggly hamster - 01 Feb, 2024 - 02:52PM

And it wasn't beer glasses... it was a coffee and a glass of mineral water taken at L'antica Pizzeria da Michele... oh I give in.

Just go there and feed your face, it's like an angel kissing your tongue. Utterly amazeballs.


Funguy77 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 02:48PM

@giggly

Lol 😂 don’t let the fun police 👮‍♀️ get you down m8

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giggly hamster - 01 Feb, 2024 - 02:43PM

@funguy,

Then I am truly lost!

I haven't the foggiest on how to get them, maybe if I access through a mobile platform?

In a most unmanlike manner I may have to message support and get them to tell me the secret.

As for 'that' button... the gap between us and the sun is closer than the kap between knowing and opportunity.
Just call me Brother Giggly. A vow of silence might well be the safest bet.

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