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Needle in a Haystack

It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?

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Enigmatic Lady - 26 Apr, 2024 - 02:54PM

Actually, unlike some on here, I prefer someone with intelligence, someone with a good sense of humour, good personality, manners, honest, decent, reliable but above all respectful.
Yes…. There has to be some sort of connection but, as a female and Glaswegian, has wrongly pointed out, I don’t sleep around with just anyone.
If that’s someone’s, female and Glaswegian, opinion so be it. Even if it’s wrong.
And the inability to understand, on her part, to understand plain English…. 😂😏🙄

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Enigmatic Lady - 26 Apr, 2024 - 02:36PM

@EmnEm123

Just stating an actual fact. If you can’t read plain English it’s not my problem.

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Darkman262626 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 01:52PM

I'd say just persist. We all have preferences and make subjective choices. In terms of the profiles I've seen, very few seem to be seeking the 6ft gym bunny. Even if they are, assuming you dont tick that box, then just keep scrolling. Some people will be very prescriptive in terms of what they want, others far less so. Each to their own

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EmnEm123 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 01:23PM

Enigmatic Lady

Imagine wanting to find someone attractive? Shocking!

By your comment you would be happy to meet anybody and everybody?

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Suzanne1983 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 01:14PM

I'd love to meet someone a little more edgy. So few piercings, tattoos etc

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Pink Eiga - 26 Apr, 2024 - 12:58PM

OP, there is good reason for some women to want such men, eg taller, well heeled women who like to go to the gym perhaps. It is nothing personal. Just as some women like lots of hair and others prefer things neatly groomed away.

Niche, is subjective. But whatever your physique or dress sense, always remember to go in nicely scrubbed up, clean outfit on and smelling neutral/pleasant. That happens after you’ve secured the meet, by being nothing but your pure honest charming self 😉

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Enigma.. - 26 Apr, 2024 - 11:32AM

Enigmatic Lady

Mirror, mirror
On the wall
Who is the fairest/handsome
Of them all?
“Why you of course”.
That’s the fairy tale.
Meanwhile back in “the real world”… Reality.
Could you imagine their faces if the mirror laughed.
Said “We’ll it’s not you. That’s for sure. I’ll give you a four out of 10” 😂😉😝😏.
And then… wait for it… cracks 😂😝😆.
Oh! to be a fly on the wall 😏😉.
Now that’s what I would call a reality check 😂😝😃😏😉.


1653842 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 10:51AM

Remember ladies might think us men are all looking for a well endowed blonde supermodel with a large bank balance ! I am much more interested in a girl next door rather than unattainable eye candy . The sexiest girl is one who likes me !

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Enigmatic Lady - 26 Apr, 2024 - 10:18AM

That’s the problem with a lot of males and females on this site. Most judge someone by how they look and not what the actual person is like personality wise.
To many males and females living in LaLa land with to many high and unrealistic expectations.
It’s about time these people grew up and looked in the mirror 😏🙄.

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Boomer1514 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 09:40AM

Cont'd
My advise to you is to make yourself.known on the site. Join in the forums. There's a lot of light hearted banter with good people and from my own perspective I want to know who these people are so you look at.their profile and they look at yours. So you are promoting your profile.
Almost everyone is looking for the same thing on here. No one is looking for a partner for life.
Be yourself and hopefully you'll find what you are looking for.
Best of luck

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