Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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GolfBeachBeer - 02 Jul, 2025 - 12:16AM
Having only recently joined I feel like the women's profiles I've seen that join are either 100% sure of what they want or are very unhappy and unsure what they want.
Gonna have to follow this one as its very interesting looking to see what women are looking for to be honest.
Paula99 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 02:55PM
Growing up I found more guys were too picky and if the role had reversed then you get what you deserve …
Simple …
1795842 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 02:18PM
Women are a lot more picky than men. Which is fair. Maybe add some more interesting things about yourself to your profile
Westlad 222 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 09:23AM
Say nothing just make things complicated
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Need the escape sometimes - 28 Jun, 2025 - 03:37PM
It wouldn’t put me off, in fact I think it’s best to be honest with your affair.
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Tallhandsomecapable - 26 Jun, 2025 - 09:24AM
You should be honest about your situation and what you're looking for.
Firstly, it'll avoid anyone feeling misled should they get involved.
Secondly, it'll attract people who are looking for similar things to you. Rare as they might be, it's better to open to find the right person in the right situation with the right wants and need for both of you.
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Paula99 - 24 Jun, 2025 - 12:00PM
Sadly …. It does make everything complicated…
The third party in this doesn’t know the dynamic in your relationship and that affects people in different ways ..
Emotions are fickle and can easily become toxic ….I would never get involved in this kind of situation no matter how much I liked the couple in question …
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1794174 - 23 Jun, 2025 - 11:42PM
If you’re good looking then state it in your profile.
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Kisses The Texture Of Velvet - 23 Jun, 2025 - 07:28PM
I would be pleased a chap has his wife's agreement because it would make meeting up easier.
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