Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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EmnEm123 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 01:19PM
Luminescent
This thread isn't that old, probably still early days!
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1682268 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 01:16PM
Be interesting if the OP came back with an update on how the new lifestyle was going? Was it a success?
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1687814 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 09:26AM
No shit your wife’s doing better than you, so much for a bit of friendly competition.
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EmnEm123 - 15 Jul, 2024 - 03:31PM
AsianGent
Good point, well made.
Kudos!
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AsianGent1986 - 14 Jul, 2024 - 02:41PM
@AimToEase48
I gave my 10 cents on what a mistake you have made but to answer your original question…Yes, putting open relationship on your profile will affect things. People are largely looking for others in a similar situation to themselves. Most women on here are married and in your case if stuff hits the fan and people find out, the blowback is significantly less severe for you compared to them.
Just my take.
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Aim to please48 - 12 Jul, 2024 - 08:40AM
My Apologies Paula99 if you did. I know a couple of you actually did but mostly it was just giving their opinion on my situation which was also welcome too.
It’s all a learning curve😊
I’m just glad we don’t have to lie about what we’re doing.
Paula99 - 12 Jul, 2024 - 05:19AM
AimToPlease48….
I answered your original question on the 4th July ..😁
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Emerald Dream - 11 Jul, 2024 - 11:57PM
Everyone probably missed your query because they were diverted by the situation you described . It’s definitely unusual . But to answer your question I don’t think mentioning it and being upfront is helping you get replies or interest . Mainly because people possibly can foresee some complications .. It’s all an unknown quantity as to what will transpire ! Especially now you’ve said your situation isn’t as simple as spicing up your marriage !
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Aim to please48 - 10 Jul, 2024 - 10:50AM
Everyone seems to be missing the original question, but that doesn’t matter now. It’s all good anyway 😊
But it’s a little more complicated than being able to just spice things up at home, Emerald Dream.
Obviously there’s a whole lot of people that won’t understand the situation and everyone is entitled to their opinions. Either way, looking forward to seeing what tge future holds. Hope everyone finds what they’re looking for on here and are happy in whatever they get up to😉🤗
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