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Here we go 693 - 27 Jan, 2025 - 11:14AM

CC You're totally on the money there. I'm sure it's not just the men on the site that get rejected multiple times. It's all just part and parcel of how it works. If you went into a pub or bad, you wouldn't expect to suddenly be set upon be the opposite sex (well some people might, but I'm afraid you're dillusional!).

Clickable Connection - 27 Jan, 2025 - 09:19AM

First up , and sorry if this sounds harsh - I think generally you need to come at this knowing you'll be rejected more times than not - accept this and move on.

I don't condone ghosting at all , I think if you go on a date and it's not for you , just have the courage to say so.

Agree with Unhappyhousewife1 - there could be many factors at play -

- they could be newbies , so the nerves or guilt thing sets in
- perhaps the conversation didn't flow as well as you thought ?
- perhaps your photos didn't represent who you are ?
- perhaps they just didn't feel the spark 🤷‍♂️

I wouldn't take it personally, you are never going to be every womens cuppa tea. Just carry on being yourself and the right person will come I'm sure.

Pick yourself up and move on , it's in the past. Good luck 👍

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Unhappyhousewife1 - 26 Jan, 2025 - 12:38PM

I'm thinking maybe some females meet and perhaps they regret it or feel nervous?
Have these women met others before or was this there first time meeting someone other than there spouse ? Alot of factors could be at play

Doubleohseven - 26 Jan, 2025 - 11:49AM

Obviously, do not be yourself.

1743108 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 10:01PM

Definitely not smartypants. Maybe get a duck, then ask if she “wants to see a duck pic?” Or..
“can I send you a duck pick?”
“Do you want to walk my duck with me one morning?”
Much better.

smartypants12345 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 08:24PM

Don’t show them your d*ick in the restaurant

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LucaBG - 25 Jan, 2025 - 02:07PM

Just be yourself - sincerity brings the best matches in life

1743108 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 01:01PM

Don’t fuck up the first date.

MagicMouse321 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 11:57AM

Perhaps just focus on one?!

Dating four women at the same time surely means you are going to cut corners and not be present as fully as you could be.

And on the date “Leave them wanting more” as they say in show business! Just be the 100% of you and you will be successful.

1742947 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 10:37AM

Shower, nails, shoes
listen with curiosity
Speak with honesty
Act with integrity!
It's an information exchange not a pitch.
Smile:) People who cannot smile should not open shops!

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