Comments (47)

leggysheila - 22 Aug, 2024 - 08:32AM

And here's me thinking about my rounders kit from school x

rarity23 - 07 Aug, 2024 - 09:57AM

Family has to come first, so I think a pause in an affair is perfectly normal, whether that's school holidays or anything else, I'm sure your IE will be understanding.

Do want you know you can get away with, without causing suspicion at home, much like you have been for the last 4 months.

1623782 - 28 Jul, 2024 - 07:37PM

If the commitment is there for both I’m sure you’ll both stay strong enough to ride the storm if meets are difficult. If you both want it enough you’ll find away

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1408586 - 27 Jul, 2024 - 09:35AM

I’ve always met at least once over the summer holidays. Sometimes twice. But I don’t do long distance affairs so it’s easier. An hour here or there isn’t noticeable 😇

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Pink Eiga - 27 Jul, 2024 - 09:08AM

Summer time in general tends to be IE low season. Even away from the school holidays, people tend to go away on their family breaks. Agree with Paula99. Keep the virtual comms up and use this time to prep for your September meet, which will no doubt be 💥💥💥 after time away from each other.

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Paula99 - 27 Jul, 2024 - 07:21AM

The school holidays are tough for most parents…so I suggest you use your time wisely and strike up the chats and text messages in preparation for your September meet if you are juggling your time..
When my children were in school I didn’t have the time to think about another guy but It was visible on my profile…the point being you can plan for September and surprising enough most people respect it ..

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1686467 - 26 Jul, 2024 - 08:52PM

Having not long recently joined.. I take it the next 6 weeks are going to be notoriously quiet trying to find an IE then.. ;)

I have a couple of kids. For 2 out of the 6 weeks, I have off work to look after them and then going away for the 2nd of those 2 weeks. The other 4 weeks I'm working with the youngest in holiday camps. Essentially like being at school again.

Just think it throws people off their prior routines this time of year and is more of an amicable juggling act to accommodate.

WhiteKnight_99 - 26 Jul, 2024 - 10:44AM

Roleplay, phone sex, exploring the deepest recesses of each others' imaginations.

For example 😁

1680841 - 26 Jul, 2024 - 08:50AM

When you say 'stop' do you mean 'pause'??
Either one is a completely different conversation!

Given the flow of conversation so far, it seems 'pause' is the most likely.

Does your IE have children too? They may need the same space you require.
Ulti.ately, talking to them about this is deffinately the first move

1681422 - 26 Jul, 2024 - 08:40AM

I think you could just put a pause on the affair until it's more convenient for you both.

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