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Blessed3127 - 01 Oct, 2024 - 07:59PM

Please don’t ask me if it is ok that you have not had a vasectomy within 5 minutes of chatting which one charmer did !

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EmnEm123 - 01 Oct, 2024 - 02:25PM

Richard5484

I just had a look at your profile and thought it was good.

As From Ross said, this can be a long game, don't get disheartened.

Also, be aware that there really isn't that many members to choose from, so it's probably not anything specific that you're doing wrong.

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FromRoss - 30 Sep, 2024 - 10:42PM

Richard5484

Don’t worry, don’t let it get to you. Women here get bombarded by lots of messages, so all they can do sometimes is not to reply to keep things sane for them.

Advice:be yourself. Try and use a subject line that will attract attention, don’t expect replies (just be pleasantly surprised when they do happen!). And have patience, this is a long game and you can spend quite some time finding someone suitable.

Good luck!

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Richard5484 - 30 Sep, 2024 - 09:55PM

I’m not having much luck with making contact with anyone perhaps it’s my profile can someone give me some advice Richard

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The_Perfect_Kiss - 30 Sep, 2024 - 08:56PM

Just be yourself

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FromRoss - 30 Sep, 2024 - 05:30PM

I don’t think anyone falls for chat up lines any more. I’ll try and use some kind of hook in an introduction message and make each one tailored to the woman I’m writing to. Many ladies have really great profile names, so that’s a way into their personality as well.

I generally try and read the tone of the profile and respond in the same manner.

As always, pretty much nothing will guarantee a reply. Sometimes it’s a matter of saying the right thing at the right time.

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help each other - 26 Sep, 2024 - 05:27PM

do you sleep on your stomach ?
if not can I😇😇😈😈

princeofpassion69 - 24 Sep, 2024 - 02:41PM

I definitely didn’t use the old favourite : “excuse me, you’re like a really good toolkit - every time I see you my nuts tighten” …. :)

In all seriousness, there isn’t really a formula for these things, just be yourself and be chatty, and if the recipient likes you, they’ll reciprocate, almost certainly! :)

Pink Eiga - 22 Sep, 2024 - 03:56PM

brightbiguy - 22 Sep, 2024 - 11:51AM

Imagine the response rate of someone who merely types ‘Hi’ 😊

Paula99 - 22 Sep, 2024 - 12:05PM

Brightbiguy…

Sadly ….thats the symptoms with online dating/hookups …let’s face it guys have been chasing sex since Adam n Eve were in the garden of Eden…but now it’s much more difficult to attain as women are not puppets anymore…

In defence some women make it difficult with their expectations and shopping lists but it’s all karma to both sexes..😎