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Man_Alive_2025 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 09:16PM

Look for commonalities between your and their profile and mention them in your message. Keep it relatively short and ask them to read your profile and to message back if they’re interested in finding out more about each other

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1717752 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 08:38PM

In the words/song lyrics of the late, great David Bowie, 'Let's dance....'.

In other words, find your rhythm and flow.

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marklondonengland - 14 Mar, 2025 - 07:13PM

Chat up lines are something that used to exist in Carry On films... this is 2025

tmn2024 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 06:08PM

Chat up lines suitable for IE? Not sure chat up lines work in this realm to be honest.

But if you ever spot someone in a bar or whatever, walk over to her/him and say "my friend over there wants me to ask you if you think I'm good looking". And watch for the double take 😂

Hanson04 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 05:15PM

Hi there, I am new here. So would like to say hello to everyone

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1757504 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 04:43PM

Great question, and absolutely no idea! 😂 I’m also new at this & struggle with the non face to face nature of this communication, there are no non verbal cues which would direct any ‘chat up line’ or introduction, and equally direct you away from even bothering simply by observing characteristics & social behaviour etc.
I do wonder if the timing of whatever is said initially is the most influential factor & relies entirely on luck by virtue of respective mindsets at time of making 1st contact…
Who knows, but this malarkey is a flippin’ minefield that’s for sure! Good luck everyone!

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Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:59PM

SirrahNek..

It was just a joke …lighten up 😊

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SirrahNek - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM

Paula99

weather/politics and religion - dear god no! And sex seems a bit forward, even here!

Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:21PM

There aren’t any chat up lines anymore …you might as well talk about the weather/politics and religion 🙄

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1725764 - 16 Feb, 2025 - 06:43PM

Good humour rather than chat up lines work well, but definitely avoid the standard "hey" or "hi". It doesn't have to be an essay though x