How much do you actually trust your IE Partner?
I have been fortunate to find a great match on IE. We messaged for a while
and got on great, well enough to arrange a first initial meeting with no
pressure on either of us to take things further if we didn't have a good
connection. All went well and we quickly arranged a first private meet up
and it went so well that that we have since enjoyed being with each other
several times. My only issue is that my IE partner has said that he is
happy and fully committed to our exclusive IE affair, but he has continued
to use and pay for the services of this site long after his subscription
ended. I think I already know the answer to my concerns and gut feeling on
this, but before I act on it, I would like to seek out other opinions and
advice!
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Comments (32)
Paula99 - 27 Mar, 2025 - 05:21AM
It’s in his interests to use up all of his subscription…let’s be honest …how many profiles are there when you click on them and it says you can’t view this person ? ….there are delays at times and Admin will be in no hurry to delete your profile …😉
To the OP….how do you know he’s an active user….you are here checking up on him….you are doing the same ?…. Be cool about it…if he’s a known philanderer then he will show his true colours…then you move on ….Simple
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ExoticOrchid - 26 Mar, 2025 - 11:15PM
I'm interested in how the OP knows her IE is continuing to be a paid member here ... 🤔
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AddedExtra - 26 Mar, 2025 - 09:51PM
Hi. Devil's advocate here.
I have been in a 5 year IE affair. After a month or so he messaged me to say he forgot to cancel his subscription and was auto billed. Could it be this? How do you know he is active as such?
If you have evidence he is logging in then I wouldn't put up with that. This is an affair site which to me is more than a dating site.
It could be an oversight on his part if just a month or so unless, as I say, you know he is actually logging in.
Definitely speak to him. Auto billed or not if he is wanting exclusive he should delete the account!
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Sexy99999 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 09:03PM
Your very lucky I wish to find my perfect partner in crime come check out my profile xxx
ExoticOrchid - 26 Mar, 2025 - 08:08PM
How do you know that "he has continued to use and pay for the services of this site" ... have you seen his credit card statement? Do you have you access to his IE account and have read his messages? Etc, etc. 🤷🏻♀️
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1573038 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 07:08PM
In my opinion it is human nature to second guess your IE partner even from a male perspective after meeting and they are back online . We all know the options ....
Cheryl Kim - 26 Mar, 2025 - 06:00PM
Agree with TM4
We don’t have eyes at the back of our heads. If not IE, could be elsewhere anyway.
Either dump him, or adjust your expectations.
Toffee.macchiato4 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 05:30PM
Hi OP
I really like that you get the implications of him continuing to pay for his subscription here. It’s not cheap and he is obviously err liaising with other women.
I hope 🤞 it’s not a painful realisation for you. Yous sound ace 👍
Consider moderating your thinking 🤔 to suit. Expecting exclusivity might be a little far fetched even when they say they are about exclusivity.
I say enjoy the laughs, enjoy the sex and protect yourself. Chat to other men too even if you’re not getting jiggy with them.
Life is for living. I say enjoy ☺️
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KinkyKim195 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 05:17PM
I've never met anyone from here but I'd be cautious to start with, I'd even go as far as to play together for a while online, just until the habit was changed, you'd definitely have fun together too! Xx
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