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1610442 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 09:13PM

@ Feminine charm

I’m a new age man who believes in equality so that being said you can pay and I’ll hold the door

😂😂😂😂😂

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1610442 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 09:10PM

Pmsl man there’s alarm 🚨 bells going of left and right 😂😂😂😂😂🐇🐇🐇🐇🥘🥘🥘🥘🥘

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tmn2024 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 09:00PM

Funguy77:

To me, the underlying message coming through is that I'm a selfish pain in the yaris, I'm above you and you'll answer to my command, I'll allow you to empty your wallet on me and I'll consider allowing you to clean my shoes for me if I decide you might be half worth a second glance on all of my terms.

It's not a good scenario, but the giveaway lines in the profile are useful, they tell you to move on and don't waste your energy.

There's often this air of superiority about profiles that have made me think something like "no wonder you're on this site if you're like that, even you're husband is tired of you and you're having to find someone new to play games with.....".

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tmn2024 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 08:21PM

Feminine charm:

I always try to spot and avoid profiles that say more about what someone doesn't like or want rather than actually tells the reader anything useful like what they do like or want. You know the type - all you get is "don't do this and don't ask me about that or you'll be blocked". These profiles are a sure sign of a diva time waster. I have engaged in back and forth with people on here who barred me from speaking about anything personal yet demanded that I be the one the keep the conversation going like they're some sort of queen and I'm their court jester! Literally there is nothing I can banter with them about because they've deemed everything off limits, yet I'm supposed to keep them entertained.

So no, you haven't ruffled feathers. You've just given us some more pointers on profiles to avoid and not waste our time on. Quite honestly, the carry on of some people here would make you feel apologetic for breathing. No wonder everyone's rolling their eyes!

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EmnEm123 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 05:59PM

Typo alert, know, not no! 🤔

EmnEm123 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 05:32PM

@Feminine charm

I doubt that you have ruffled any feathers. I'm pretty sure the guys on here no what type of women to avoid.

You want gifts and shopping trips but don't want to be treated like an escort?

I don't think it's the men who message you that are the "self important leeches".

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1610442 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 05:08PM

Question for the men on here

So when a lady’s profile says “ looking for a man who knows how to treat a lady “ . & “ I am used to the finer things in life “

What dose that really say 🤔

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Feminine charm - 27 Apr, 2025 - 04:37PM

We don’t wanted to be interviewed for a start.

Also don’t be asking intimate questions - our lives have nothing to do with you, so jobs and family dynamics are not for discussion. Let a woman offer up this information

Reading our profiles is a big one… and taking into account what we are looking for.

In my experience, the few that get through spoil it by taking my invitation to meet for a coffee as automatic that we are going to jump into bed straight after.

Then there the guys that literally don’t want to put in any effort to show a woman a nice time.

NB guys - if you treat the transaction like an escort then don’t be suprised if that’s what you attract.

Masculine men know who to treat a woman and know that dinners , gifts and shopping trips are all part this.

If you can’t afford that then fine - don’t expect a woman to pick you.

I suspect this will ruffle some feathers, but it’s transactional we are all looking for something.

If you can’t do the. bare m

tmn2024 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 10:46AM

I can only imagine the amount of mail women receive on here, it must be impossible to keep track of it. And men have to try and battle that....it's demoralising most of the time. It's like sperm heading for an egg and only one in millions makes it through.

Maybe the trick is to figure out what it is about that one sperm that makes it the successful one. And the trouble there is that different eggs all like different things, so there's no hard and fast rule.

Conclusion? Be yourself and keep at it. One day if your lucky, a suitable "egg" will be in your path and magic happens. It's always going to be a long shot, but hey - that's life.

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Cookie2557 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 10:12AM

I don't reply to the introduction messages which are a carbon copy of the profile. No effort has been shown, just button clicking

Try reading her profile and asking a question based on what she's written. Of course, that only works if there is detail in the profile.

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