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boav91 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 07:49AM

It is a real challenge on here to stand out. The first time I was on here it totally drained any confidence in myself that I had any attractiveness to women. No matter what you did, followed the advice of reading profiles and using them as a way to engage someone, most people just ignore you still.

A few people don’t and are genuine and eventually one of them turned into my current long term ie. To some degree you have to accept sometimes this medium is false and really hard to show who you really are in a few words. But like speed dating only harder. If you get past this first part however and people do really engage with you it can work so you just have to keep trying . I think the change in my mentality from caring people ignored me and stressing about it to realise it was the approach that was hard changed my view too.

Do be yourself, be funny, do read what they have said, although some profiles don’t give you much to work with, and if they like what they see, well then , good luck.

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I_need_some_fire - 26 Apr, 2025 - 11:10PM

It’s a difficult one to answer as all women are after different things. I don’t like soppy stuff or someone trying too hard. I’d rather just a normal message and if it’s witty and makes me smile, I will respond. But some women may want to be asked what their fave colour is or how many orgasms you will give her, that’s not for me though.

Peaches1 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 11:00PM

Stick with their age range if possible because I have had lots of messages with people far older than me. People have their preferences so you would be wasting your time if you are 60's messaging a person in 30's. Just my experience of people wasting time and expecting a reply.

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1610442 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 08:16PM

Emm123

Always.. trouble is no one has figured me or my profile out yet 😛😛

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1610442 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 08:15PM

@Nek

That’s one of my questions never to ask …

Well never on a first date

EmnEm123 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 07:59PM

SirraNek

That was the first question in his previous post! 😯😂

Funguy77

Are you trying to tell us something? 😆

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SirrahNek - 18 Apr, 2025 - 06:05PM

Funguy - tiny typeface on my computer - your Question 10. The ‘r’ and the ‘n’ pretty much crashed into each other to make a question that really shouldn’t ever be asked in an introduction!

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1610442 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 04:08PM

Part 2

1."If we were to get locked in a room together for an hour, what do you think would happen?"
2."What’s your mosr embarrassing ‘oops, that was too much’ moment in the bedroom?"
3."Would you rather have someone who’s great in bed but terrible at cuddling, or vice versa?"
4."What’s the most unexpected place you’ve ever gotten lucky?"
5."Do you think chemistry is more about mental attraction or physical attraction?"
6."What’s a dealbreaker in the bedroom that people rarely talk about?"
7."If I whispered something naughty in your ear right now, what would your reaction be?"
8."What’s something that always turns you on, even if it’s totally unexpected?"
9. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again in a tighter pair of jeans?"
10. "Do you like a good slow burn or prefer to dive right in?"

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1610442 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 03:10PM

Questions not to ask ??

1. Do you do anal 🤦
2. Do you have a sister 😳
3. Will you dress like my ex 🫢

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Arista - 18 Apr, 2025 - 12:59PM

we're all in a queue